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| Miss Know It All |
A poster on one of the social networks, of which I
am member, had asked the following question: My friend is planning a secret affair and wanted my advice. What is the
best way to conduct a secret affair? Are there any good tips to avoid getting
caught, like hiding text messages, apps and emails, etc? I said, “Get another
secret pay as you go phone.” Do you have any other ideas?
Anonymous
When I read the question, I made the following comment:
“Once two people participate in an affair, it's no longer a secret” and left it
at that. But I was stunned by some of the comments posted, which have been
paraphrased for clarity:
Your wife
or girlfriend will always find out. We women just have a way of finding out
about secret affairs. Now that does not mean every women will not accept her
husband for having a secret affair, if she is having the same too.
The best
way to keep an affair a secret is to always meet at a hotel in another city, at
least 100-miles from your home. But in today’s world, with everyone using the
same DAMN iPhone, it becomes very hard to keep your calls and messages a secret.
I think
meeting in different places, and a secret mobile phone kept in the car. Tell
nobody about it, although best friends can cover. 100 miles mean more time away;
so that might not work. With an iPhone, it is best to switch off GPS . What
about smelling of perfume?
Well, if
she or he gets a whiff of the secret mobile phone kept in the car, then that is
the ultimate giveaway.
Don't
know, I’m asking how to cover your tracks.
The best way to have a secret affair is in your head! The
truth always comes out, as one lie always leads to the next and bigger lie,
until it all gets exposed. Since there is more technology to use, it also
leaves more evidence to be discovered. When a woman wants to find out, she will...
and she will pick up on the slightest bit of guilt your friend may have. Any
change in his ways, she will pick up on. Women have a way to sniff stuff out...it’s
a gift.
Now mind you, I am not one to judge anyone who decides
to cheat on their spouse, because what is done in the dark will sooner or later
come to light, which may have dire consequences.
We would like to know what your take is on the question,
and how would you answer this person if the question was put to you? Post your
answers in the comment box.
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