Monday, April 22, 2024

Information That Should Never Be Included on Your Dating Profile

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Regarding dating profiles, it's important to maintain a level of discretion and protect your personal information. Here are some examples of information that should never be included on dating profiles:

Personal addresses: Sharing your home or work address can jeopardize your safety and privacy.

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Your child’s images: Never include your child’s photo in your dating profile.

Social Security number or financial information: Never provide sensitive financial details like your Social Security number, bank account information, or credit card details.

Intimate or explicit photographs: Avoid posting explicit or intimate photographs on dating profiles; these pictures can be misused or exploited. 


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Passwords or login credentials: Never share your passwords, credentials, or confidential account information.


Personal identification numbers (PINs): Don't disclose any personal identification numbers, such as your PIN for banking or other sensitive accounts.


Family member details: Avoid mentioning specific details about your family members, especially their names, addresses, or contact information.


Workplace information: Refrain from sharing detailed information about your workplace, including the company name, address, or other sensitive details.


Personal conflicts or legal issues: It's best to keep your dating profile free from any references to personal conflicts, ongoing legal matters, or past criminal activities.

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Exact daily routine: Avoid mentioning your exact daily routine, including information about where you work, where you usually go after work, or any other regular patterns that could potentially compromise your safety.


Medical or health conditions: Keep any personal medical or health conditions private until you develop a deeper level of trust with someone.


Remember, the goal is to protect your personal safety, privacy, and security when using dating platforms. It's always better to err on the side of caution and share personal information gradually as you get to know someone better in a safe and secure environment. ■

Monday, April 15, 2024

Seasonal Dating - A Trend You May Want to Consider by Miss Know It All

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I was watching a talk show recently. The guest was asked about her dating status. Her discussion involved how she was into seasonal dating. Of course, I was not familiar with this inclination and decided to do more research about this style of dating.

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Seasonal dating, also known as ‘spread dating,’ refers to a dating practice where individuals engage in short-term romantic relationships or casual dating during specific times of the year, typically associated with particular seasons or holidays. It is a pattern of dating behavior where people intentionally pursue romantic connections for a limited duration, often coinciding with certain festive periods or vacation seasons.


The concept of seasonal dating is prevalent in various cultures and can be influenced by factors such as cultural traditions, social norms, and personal preferences. For example, some individuals may actively seek romantic relationships during the summer months when people tend to be more social and active outdoors. Others may prioritize dating during the holiday season, hoping to find companionship or someone to spend time with during festive celebrations.

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Seasonal dating differs from long-term committed relationships or continuous dating, as the focus is typically on enjoying the moment and embracing the specific season or occasion rather than building a lasting partnership. It allows individuals to explore connections without the pressure of long-term commitment and may involve activities such as casual outings, attending events, or participating in holiday-themed celebrations together.

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It's important to note that seasonal dating can vary in intensity and intentions among different individuals. Some may view it as a lighthearted and temporary dating strategy, while others might approach it with the hope of finding a more serious relationship. Communication and mutual understanding between individuals engaging in seasonal dating are crucial to ensure both parties are on the same page regarding their expectations and intentions.

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Perhaps seasonal dating is not a new phenomenon. You hear about celebrities breaking up faster than the onset of a tidal wave. I remember back in the sixties listening to a mother telling her daughter not to break up with her boyfriend until she received her Christmas gift from him.

Nevertheless, not all relationships are meant to last forever. Some people meet for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime.

Monday, April 08, 2024

Virtual Book Tour - Highlighting D.W. Brooks, Author of Home Coming Chaos


By D.W. Brooks


GENRERomantic Suspense/Mystery/African American Fiction

A dead body in the parking lot of her family’s business, a killer on the loose, and a handsome detective asking a lot of questions…


Jamie Scott’s life fell apart four years ago when she broke off her engagement, turned down a dream job, and went overseas to run away from her life. Now she’s back, but the reunion is not without problems. She arrives home just in time to attend the soiree her mother planned, but she’s not prepared for what she finds—a dead employee in the parking lot.


Detective Nick Marshall is assigned to the murder case at the forensics lab owned by Jamie’s family. He meets the headstrong Jamie, but he has a job to do. And his attraction to her… well, he’s a professional.


Jamie knows the stakes are high. She has to face the past and save her parents’ business while dealing with her family drama and an uncertain future. She also has to deal with Nick, who wants her out of the way of his investigation. But fate keeps throwing them in one another’s paths… and into chaos that they both want to avoid, but neither can seem to escape.

“Wait, wait. Hold on. Do you have a warrant? Do we need an attorney?” Jamison stood up, too. She was almost as tall as the detective and incredibly pretty up close, which caught him off guard. “Aren’t there proprietary issues at the lab?”


Nick paused and deferred to Ronald. Ronald chimed in. “We’re just trying to get information about this woman’s death. You can call a lawyer if you wish but retaining one may slow things down.”


“Hmmm.” Jamie stared at both detectives. She couldn’t read either of them, but the situation gave her pause. She recognized the importance of finding out what had happened to their employee. However, the family business needed to be shielded as much as possible. Jamie hadn’t been back long, and her brain was still cloudy and jet-lagged, but she recognized the potential perils in just letting the police roam free in the lab. “Dad, Mother, someone should call Richard,” she said, scrutinizing both parents.


Margaret said, “Good idea. I’ll call while I change. He can meet us there.” She gave the detective and the other officers a superior glance. “Richard Bradshaw, he’s a partner at Bradshaw, Taylor, and Kline, and he is our son-in-law.” She turned to walk into the master suite, with Gregory following.


Nick shook his head, and Ronald was less subtle with a steady scowl. Both had heard about Richard’s firm and peripherally knew Richard. This situation just got a lot more difficult. Nick didn’t suspect the family, but involving a lawyer usually complicated their police work. He turned back to Jamie, who was studying his reaction. He adjusted his face so she couldn’t sense his annoyance.


Jamie noted the subtle change and smiled to herself. She could tell she had annoyed him. Even annoyed, he’s pretty cute. “I need to get my coat. If you will excuse me,” she said, heading back to her bedroom.


Upstairs, Jamie changed clothes, retrieving a pair of skinny black jeans from her bag. As she slid into her jeans, her mind wandered to the detective. She typically dated guys that were taller than her—with her ex-fiancé being the lone exception—Eddie had been the same height. A strong jaw, wavy-ish hair, nice lips, and a commanding presence—which Jamie suspected the detective had in spades—didn’t hurt either. Just the type of guy she would typically go for if the circumstances were different. Rifling through the dresser, she found a white Henley shirt she’d left on a previous visit. She had gained almost fifteen pounds since then, and the shirt fit snugly. She now had boobs! Placing the hat back on her head, she was glad she had an appointment at the hair salon later in the day.


Yikes, she thought after catching herself primping in the mirror. Am I trying to impress the detective who’s investigating us? Girl, it has been a long time. Although he is hot. She shook her head exasperatedly.

D. W. Brooks
The author is a doctor and editor who lives in Texas with her husband and children. She enjoys trying to stay in shape, sporadically cooking, reading (still), writing, and working on her blog. She is eternally grateful to the woman who donated a kidney to her over 5 years ago and continues to advocate for organ donation as much as she can.

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Thank you for stopping by and sharing your book Homecoming Chaos. There is always more to an author’s life. So, we thought our readers and visitors would enjoy learning more about you and your writing career.

What are some of the most valuable lessons you have learned from writing? 

I have developed additional courage. I know that is strange to say given my previous profession as a physician. But in becoming a physician, you are judged by and rely on your intellect and brain. You are used to being graded on that scale, and you can improve your scores by studying harder, working harder, or requesting help.  Writing a book is different. It doesn't matter how smart you are, the reaction to your book has nothing to do with you or your smarts. And after living a life where I could work to improve my reception, this is an industry where you throw caution to the wind. You might write a great book, and people may not be into it or you may have a hard time finding your audience. It takes courage to put yourself out there.

Also, I found some additional resilience. This was the first book that I ever finished. It wasn't easy, but I did it!

What type of characters do you enjoy creating?

I like creating characters who are basically good people, but they have character flaws or experiences that make them do bad or stupid things. I haven't created a straight evil character yet, but I am looking forward to making one. Perhaps I will whenever I write my first straight mystery story.

Which authors have influenced you the most? 

Alexandre Dumas: I appreciated his skill in spinning an engrossing read.

Charles Dickens: His ability to describe and set a scene had me struggling through his introductions to get to the real story.

James Patterson: His earlier works were really fast-paced and thrilling.

Janet Evanovich: The ability to create a long-running series with engaging characters. Also, the ability to have a lighter-hearted mystery series.

Alex Haley: I just felt every word that he wrote in Roots.

Have you ever had writer’s block, and if so, how did you overcome it. 

I haven't had writer's block; most of my writing issues come from a lack of time and time management. When I wrote Homecoming Chaos, I had nothing else to do. Due to a genetic condition, I was on dialysis and was exhausted while waiting for a kidney transplant. So, I had no deadlines – perceived or real. Now, I have more deadlines and more to do, so I am trying to organize my schedule to get my writing done.

Have you ever received a negative comment or review about your book, and if so, how did you handle it? 

While the vast majority of my reviews have been 4 or 5-star, I have received a couple of 3-star reviews with comments about issues they had with my story construction or writing style. Of course, seeing any criticism stings but I try not to let it bother me too much. I also don't linger over them. It's self-protection.

However, as I work on my next novella and novel, I am considering the content of their comments. I am not changing everything about my writing style, but I am paying close attention to one or two of the issues they raised.

What approach do you use when developing your characters?

To create a character, I start with age, placement in family, and education. I then look up popular names during the year they were born to select the name (this name may change as I write the character). Often, I fine-tune character traits as I go through the story where reactions to situations guide me to alter a personality trait. So, some character issues may be in flux as I write.

From where do you get your story ideas?

I put pieces together from things I have read or seen on the news, from movies and television shows, and other things to try to create different scenarios. I also have a vivid imagination. I then do some investigations to make sure that specific things can actually happen in real life.

Are your stories based on true current or past events? 

No, they aren't based on specific events. There may be some elements that may sound familiar, but I generally don't write ripped-from-the-headlines-type stories.

When it comes to writing, how do you manage your time? 

This is a big issue for me right now. When I wrote Homecoming Chaos, I was in kidney failure. My life was on hold until I received a kidney transplant. Writing with no plan or deadline is a different experience than writing with deadlines and time goals to meet. I am still working on organizing my schedule now that I have goals, schedules, and deadlines to work with. It is a challenge. Nonetheless, in 2024, I plan to focus and write 1 novel and 2 novellas. 💜

Thank you for taking the time to answer the questions. We wish you good health and continued success in your endeavors. 

Monday, April 01, 2024

Why Showing Appreciation is Your Super Power in a Relationship | Tips to Help

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku shares some guidelines on showing appreciation in a relationship.


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Monday, March 25, 2024

How to Avoid Becoming a Victim of Sextortion

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Sextortion is a form of online exploitation in which someone coerces or blackmails another person into providing explicit sexual images, and videos, or engaging in sexual acts. The perpetrator may use various tactics to manipulate the victim, such as threatening to release compromising material publicly, sharing it with the victim's friends and family, or distributing it widely online unless the victim complies with their demands.


Sextortion often begins with the perpetrator gaining access to explicit content or personal information through hacking, social engineering, or other deceptive means. Once they have the material, they use it as leverage to extort the victim. This can have severe emotional, psychological, and sometimes even physical consequences for the victim, who may feel trapped and powerless in the situation.

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It is important for individuals to be cautious about sharing sensitive information online and to report any instances of sextortion to law enforcement authorities. Maintaining strong online security practices, such as using unique and complex passwords, being cautious about sharing personal information, and being aware of phishing attempts, can help reduce the risk of falling victim to sextortion.

Monday, March 18, 2024

News for Travelers


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Monday, March 11, 2024

How to Give up Struggling with Lust - 10 Tips to Free Yourself!

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku provides some great tips when it comes to struggling with lust.

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Monday, March 04, 2024

Going on a Cruise is One Way to Meet Other Singles

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A Cruise for singles is a great way for solo travelers to explore and socialize. Here are some key points to consider when looking for cruises for singles:

Several cruise lines specialize in catering to singles, such as Norwegian Cruise Line, Royal Caribbean, and P&O Cruises. They often organize events and activities designed to encourage mingling among solo travelers.

Look for cruises that visit destinations you’re interested in exploring. Consider both the duration and the ports of call to ensure they align with your preferences.

When booking a cruise, be aware of single supplements. They designed most cruise cabins for double occupancy, so solo travelers often have to pay a supplement fee to occupy a cabin alone. Some cruise lines, however, offer reduced or waived single supplements on select sailings.

Some cruise ships feature dedicated solo cabins designed specifically for single travelers. These cabins are usually smaller but can offer a more affordable option compared to paying a single supplement for a larger cabin.

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Check if the cruise line offers social activities and events tailored to singles. These can include mixers, meet-and-greets, themed parties, dance lessons, and group excursions.

Joining online forums or social media groups for solo travelers can help you connect with others who are planning to go on the same cruise, provide an opportunity to make friends before the trip, and potentially arrange shared activities or shore excursions.

Check the specific offerings and policies of each cruise line as they may vary. It’s also a good idea to read reviews and seek recommendations from other solo travelers who have experienced cruises for singles.

Monday, February 26, 2024

How Some Men Would React if a Woman Proposed to Them by Miss Know It All

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Miss Know It All 

As you know, February 29, is Leap Day where in some cultures women can propose to men. We asked men on a few social networks as to how they would react if a woman proposed to them. We certainly got our responses. Some will leave you laughing while others will leave you in awe. Answers have been edited for clarity.

That happened to me

Oh hell no! Got married once, got the t-shirt, not interested in getting married again

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Run away screaming

Be confused. I think I would glitch out, & faint.

I'd say, "Thank you, I'm very flattered, but I'm already married"

There is no woman I am close enough to, but if I was and she did propose, I'd think that would be great

I would react with a Yes

My wife would probably punch her in the face before it registered in my head what happened

There's a probability I'll respond "no." So the odds are not good

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That will never happen to me. But on a serious note, whenever it does happen, it's a surprise to be sure but a welcomed one

Does this mean I don’t have to save up to 2 months' salary?

I’d love it!


A girl of mine would never try something like that. Lol

That would give me the ick

I’d be just as surprised as my wife

Monday, February 19, 2024

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