Monday, April 24, 2023

Having Insurance When You Get Married

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That big day has finally arrived. You are marrying the love of your life and ready to pronounce those vows: to have and to hold each other in sickness and in health til death do us part.

Yet, how many couples think about having enough insurance while planning their wedding and including the right kind and the right amount of insurance that will help protect their finances from lawsuits and accidents?

Following are some steps to take as a married couple:

If you and your spouse count on each other’s earnings to support your standard of living, you both need life insurance that will keep the other financially afloat if something happens. A life insurance payment can pay for funeral costs, rent or mortgage, household bills, and debts. It can also help pay for childcare and college for children and can leave a legacy for those you love.

Your employer might offer supplemental life insurance as an employee benefit. However, the amount of coverage you get through a group insurance plan might not be enough. In addition, you may not keep that coverage if you leave the job. That is why you should get an individual life insurance policy.

There are two main types of life insurance: term and permanent. Term life insurance lasts for a certain number of years, such as 10, 15, 20, or 30. Permanent life insurance lasts for a lifetime and, therefore, is more expensive than term life.

A term life insurance policy can be ideal for a young couple because it is affordable, says Sharif Muhammad, a licensed insurance agent, Certified Financial Planner, and owner of Unlimited Financial Services. The policy’s term should be long enough to cover the needs of children—such as the years until they graduate college. Search for a policy that offers the option to convert to permanent coverage “so you have the option if you want to maintain the policy after the term runs its course,” states Muhammad.

You can shop for life insurance policies online, including options for getting instant life insurance. However, consider working with an independent insurance agent who can help you determine how much coverage you need and will shop around for you to find the best policy for your needs.

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How to Save on Life Insurance

Life insurance is a lot cheaper than you think. A survey by LIMRA and Life Happens found that half of the respondents thought a $250,000 term life policy for a healthy 30-year-old would cost $500 or more a year. However, the average cost of such a policy is only about $160 a year, or about $13 a month. Your age, health, policy type, and amount of coverage you want will affect the price you pay for life insurance.

“The younger and healthier you are when you get coverage, the more affordable it is,” says Amy Shepard, a Certified Financial Planner with Sensible Money. She suggests it can be worth it to pay a little more for a policy with a bigger benefit now in order to ensure the payout will be enough to cover any future expenses you might have, such as a house with a mortgage or children. You could also buy more life insurance in the future, but you will pay rates based on your older age and any health problems that develop in the interim.

Why You Need Disability Insurance

According to the Social Security Administration, over one in four of today’s 20-year-olds will become disabled before reaching age 67. If you become part of that statistic and cannot work because of a disability, you and your spouse would likely feel the financial pinch from the loss of your income.

Workers’ compensation insurance will pay only if the injury or illness is work-related. It may be challenging to qualify for Social Security disability benefits, and the average payout is just $1,236 a month. That is why it is important to have disability insurance to fill the gap. Think of it as a protection for your paycheck because it will replace a percentage of your income if an illness or injury leaves you unable to work, temporarily or permanently. You can use disability insurance to replace income during maternity leave, Shepard says.

How to Get Disability Insurance

If employed, you can get disability coverage through a group plan at work. A survey by the Society for Human Resource Management found that 71% of employers offer long-term disability insurance and 61% offer short-term disability insurance. Typically, group disability coverage will replace up to 60% of income, Shepard says. The drawback to relying on group coverage is that you cannot keep it if you leave your job. “I think it’s always a great idea to take advantage of group coverage if you have it and supplement it with a private policy,” Shepard says. That way, you will still have coverage regardless of your employment situation.

If you already have group disability insurance, the amount of individual coverage you can get is limited. Shepard recommends working with an independent insurance agent to coordinate individual coverage with any group coverage.

How to Save Money on Disability Insurance

Getting disability insurance through a group plan at work is usually the most affordable option and the easiest. If your employer has a group disability insurance plan offered to all employees at no cost, you will automatically qualify for coverage without having to answer questions about your health or having to take any medical tests, according to Life Happens.

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Individual disability insurance can be more expensive because your age and health can affect the cost. You can save money by getting disability insurance while you are young and healthy, Muhammad says. 

You also can keep down the cost of disability insurance by opting for long-term coverage rather than short-term coverage, Shepard says. It is more important to have a policy that will protect you for a significant period, and you can rely on an emergency fund (if you have one) to replace your income if you have a short-term disability.

See if any professional organizations you might belong to offer a group policy for long-term disability insurance. As long as you maintain your membership, group coverage will probably be more affordable than individual coverage.

Health Insurance - Coordinate Coverage with Your Spouse

You can typically change your health insurance plan through work (for group coverage) or through the health insurance marketplace (for individual coverage) once a year during open enrollment. However, marriage is one of the life events that allow you to change your coverage outside of open enrollment.

If you or your spouse does not already have health insurance, you may get coverage now through one or the other’s plan. If you both have coverage, it’s a good time to review your plans to see if you should maintain separate policies or get joint coverage, says DeDe Jones, a Certified Financial Planner and managing director of Innovative Financial.

You might find that, for example, you can get better, more affordable coverage by switching to your spouse’s health insurance plan.

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How to Save on Health Insurance

A common way to lower the cost of health insurance is to opt for a plan with a high deductible. Premiums on high-deductible plans are lower because you have to pay more out of pocket until coverage kicks in. This type of plan can make sense for healthy, young adults who do not take many or any prescription drugs and do not require frequent trips to the doctor. However, you should not bet on your good health to help you avoid paying for the deductible. If your employer offers a health savings account along with a high-deductible health plan, set aside money in that account to cover your deductible and other out-of-pocket medical costs.

If you cannot afford to max out your health savings account or cover the cost of your deductible, a high-deductible plan might not be the best way for you to save money on health insurance, Muhammad says.

Alert Your Auto Insurer to Your New Status

Let your auto insurance agent know that you have gotten married. Other household members are required to be on your policy if they are licensed drivers, even if they do not drive your car regularly.

If you and your spouse each have a car and coverage through separate insurers, it usually makes sense to choose one company and buy one policy. You will get a discount for insuring more than one vehicle, plus additional savings if you also buy your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance from that company.

How to Save on Auto Insurance

Even if your insurer offers a discount for insuring two vehicles, it can pay to shop around for lower rates with other insurers. Muhammad says that he and his wife reshop their insurance every two years to ensure they get the best deal. If you are happy with your current insurer, ask about other auto insurance discounts that you might qualify for. For example, you might save money by paying your bill annually rather than monthly.


To soften the blow of making a lump-sum car insurance payment, Shepard recommends setting aside money each month in a savings account to have enough to pay the bill when it’s due. Also, ask about increasing your deductible to lower your premium.

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Homeowners' or Renters' Insurance 

Make sure you have enough coverage. Now that you are married, you might have more belongings in your household. So make sure you have enough homeowners or renters coverage to replace those belongings in case of a major disaster like a fire, tornado, or hurricane.

To figure out how much coverage you need, start by doing a home inventory. Go room to room and make a list of your belongings and, if possible, their estimated cost. An easy way to do an inventory is to take photos or videos of your entire home, including the inside of closets, drawers, and storage spaces. There are also home inventory mobile apps such as MyStuff and Nest Egg.

If you have an “actual cash value” policy, the payout you would get would cover the cost of your belongings minus depreciation of their current value. It is better to get a policy with replacement cost coverage. This will cost more, but it will cover replacing your items.

If you have expensive items such as wedding rings, artwork, or collectibles, you might need to add a floater or rider to your policy to provide additional coverage for those items. Call your insurance agent to discuss your coverage needs now that you are married.

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How to Save on Homeowners Insurance

Shop around to find the best homeowners insurance by getting quotes from at least three insurers, or work with an independent agent who can do the shopping for you.

Ask about multi-policy discounts. You can save money if you have more than one type of policy, such as a homeowner and auto insurance, with an insurer. You can lower your premium by raising your deductible. Adding safety features such as an alarm system and smoke alarms can lead to discounts.

Keep in mind as you look for ways to save money on all of your insurance policies that it is important not to skimp on coverage just to save money.

“Shorting yourself on insurance is a fool’s endeavor,” Jones says. Paying for good insurance can seem unnecessary if you never make a claim. However, insurance is for the disasters in life, so you do not have to gut your savings or lose your home or vehicle without a financial safety net. 


Monday, April 17, 2023

The Person You Need To Marry - Don't Marry the Wrong Person

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, is back giving advice on who you should marry.

Enjoy and do not forget to leave your comments on her YouTube Channel.

Monday, April 10, 2023

Why You Should Never Lend Money to Friends or Relatives by Miss Know It All

Miss Know It All

I am a big fan of TV court cases and see my share of civil suits regarding people coming up with outlandish reasons for not paying back their loans.


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You may think helping your financially strapped friend or relative is the correct thing to do, but doing so could totally ruin your relationship. If you need some convincing, here are some reasons lending money to friends, family or anyone is a bad idea.

 

You Are a Last Resort. An individual comes to you because he or she cannot get a loan from a bank. This means traditional lenders, who add on high interest rates, consider the person to be a high risk to lending money. Most loans to friends and family have a very low or nonexistent interest rate. By loaning someone money, you are taking on a ton of risk for a fraction of the payout a bank would normally get. You can usually add anywhere from five to fifteen percent interest annually. Any amount higher is usury or illegal.

 

Most likely, you will never see your money. Most times, people who borrow money from friends or family never pay the loan back in full. If you have the money, just give them the funds, understanding that you will never see that money. You can also give the money as a gift.

 

Most loans involve parents lending money to their adult children. Sometimes the reason for the loan was a good one, like a one-time emergency that was completely unexpected. Often the reason is not to sound and parents are simply rewarding bad financial habits. If your adult children think you will bail them out of any bad financial situation they get themselves into, then there will never be reasons for them to develop good financial practices.

 

You might actually need the money. Unexpected emergencies and job losses happen. When they do, you will need extra money to pay your bills and stay afloat. If you have an extremely well-stocked emergency fund, then maybe you will not miss the money that you lent to someone. Only a quarter of Americans have more than $10,000 in their savings account. Therefore, if you are like most people, you will want your money back as soon as possible. Draining your savings to help a friend could leave you in the same predicament as the borrower.

 

Having to ask for overdue payments will eventually get uncomfortable. Since some do not repay most loans, there is probably going to be a point where your friend or a family member falls behind on payments. When that happens, it is up to you to follow up with them about their late payments. That conversation is going to be incredibly awkward. However, it gets worse. They are likely going to keep falling behind on payments. You are going to have to keep following up with them each time to let them know they are late.

 

It could ruin your relationship forever. After a few late payments, you have essentially become a debt collector for your loved one, and this will affect your relationship. You will be upset that they did not pay you back, which shows that keeping promises to you is not a priority for them. They will feel uncomfortable every time they see you because they know they owe you money. Holiday dinners and going out with your friends will now come with a ton of baggage.

 

If you are going to advance money to a friend or family member, draw up a promissory note showing when the loan is to be paid. You and the borrower sign the note. Keep a copy for yourself and give a copy to the borrower. If it is not in writing, you can say “farewell” to your loan.

 

Better yet, adhered to this motto, “Neither a borrower nor a lender be.”

Monday, April 03, 2023

News for Travelers

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Monday, March 27, 2023

Secrets To A Successful Marriage ❤ | Mistakes Single & Married People Make

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, provides advice on how to have a successful marriage, and the mistakes singles and married people make.

 

Enjoy.

Monday, March 20, 2023

5 best international wedding destinations - Written by Sneha Das

These international destinations will offer you the perfect backdrop for a dreamy wedding.

Destination weddings are on a roll ever since power couple Anushka Sharma and Virat Kohli got married in Italy in 2017. Following the trend, Ranveer Singh and Deepika Padukone also tied the knot in Lake Como, Italy in 2018. If white sandy beaches, picturesque mountains, and dreamy vineyards also fascinate you, check out these five international for your big day.


Muscat in Oman

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The largest city of Oman, Muscat is one of the best places to host your wedding celebrations amidst mighty mountains and golden desserts. Performing all the ceremonies on a dreamy beach with scenic views of mountains as a backdrop is nothing but surreal. There are many stunning resorts here where your guests can stay. The guests can also explore the mesmerizing mosques here.

Tuscany in Italy

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Located on the west coast of Italy, Tuscany is the most idyllic wedding location surrounded by green valleys, vineyards, rolling hills, olive groves, and 15th-century art and architecture. You can get married in one of the ancient castles or wine estates here for a rustic yet romantic feel. Include some local specialties in your wedding menu like mushrooms, sheep’s milk cheeses, and super-fine wine.

Vail in Colorado

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If you are looking for an adventurous destination wedding, Vail, Colorado is the perfect place to visit. Located at the foothills of Vail Mountain, this small town is ideal for a winter wedding amidst picturesque settings. Here, your guests can also enjoy several thrilling activities like snowboarding, skiing, golfing, fly fishing, and hiking. This hidden gem also organizes several cultural festivals throughout the year.

Miami in Florida

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If you want a spectacular beach wedding amid silky white sands and blue ocean waters, then Miami, Florida is a beautiful destination to consider. The unique architecture, mind-blowing skyline, and vibrant art scene will add to the wedding ambiance. The Magic City is also known for its exciting nightlife and toothsome food, which means your guests will be happy throughout.

 Mackinac Island in Michigan

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Another underrated international wedding destination, Mackinac Island in Michigan is a quaint, car-free island that is set between the state’s Upper and Lower Peninsulas near where Lake Michigan and Huron meet. Known for its frozen Victorian vibe and architectural style buildings, this national historic landmark is full of charm. You can book a Colonial Revival-style waterfront hotel or a Victorian-era mansion for the wedding.

Monday, March 13, 2023

Great Mysteries, Thrillers and Suspense Written by Remarkable Storytellers By Vivienne Diane Neal


Following are stories that will leave you wanting more. To purchase, just click on the title. Enjoy!

 

Dr. Glass (A Psychological Thriller) by Louise Worthington - A psychologist receives an ominous letter base on an article she wrote regarding filicide.

 

The Wrong Kind (Hannibal Jones Mystery Series) by Austin S. Camacho - A mother, living in a shelter, hires a private investigator to find her missing daughter who may be in danger.

 

Looking for Henry Turner (A Mo Gold and Bernie Mysteries - Book 1) by W.L. Liberman - A mother hires two private investigators to find her son who has been missing for 8 years.

 

Liar, Liar by L.G. Davis - A promising writer, with a dark past, discovers her husband is having an affair and creates a diabolical plan that will have dire consequences.

 

Not Guilty by Linette King - A successful talk-show host believes her husband’s mother does not like her because of her race.

 

Blood Rites: Rise of the Best by C.Y. Marshall - An enslaved, husband transforms into an avenging entity when a brutal owner kills his wife.

 

Acts of Betrayal by Sekinah Jackson - After almost hitting a man with her car, a successful owner of a lip-gloss company becomes infatuated with him, believing she has met her soulmate.

 

Professor Law by Jonathan D. Rosen and Amin Nasser - A successful divorce attorney, found dead from an apparent suicide, may be just another victim of foul play.

Monday, March 06, 2023

How Indonesia's New Sex Laws will Affect Tourism

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As the COVID-19 pandemic subsides, international travelers have been going back to the popular resort island of Bali, hoping that Indonesia’s beaten tourism industry is on the road to recovery.


Recently, the parliament passed new laws banning cohabitation and sex outside of marriage. The laws apply to residents, foreign expats, and vacationers in the country.


Although the changes are not expected to kick in for at least another three years, the new criminal code could put foreigners off visiting that country and hurt its global reputation, starving it of vital tourism revenues.


A Turnaround for Travel Operators  

“From our point of view as tourism industry players, this law will be very counterproductive for the tourism industry in Bali, particularly the chapters about sex and marriage,” said Putu Winastra, chairperson of the country’s largest tourism group, the Association of The Indonesian Tours and Travel Agencies (ASITA).


The new laws are a response to rising religious conservatism in Muslim-majority Indonesia in recent years, with parts of the country enforcing strict Islamic codes. In Bali, the population is predominantly Hindu and, as a result, has had a more liberal social environment that appeals to Western tourists.


Indonesian lawmakers have defended the new laws, saying they were an attempt to satisfy “public aspiration” in a diverse nation. Law and Human Rights Minister Yasonna Laoly said that it was not easy for a multicultural and multi-ethnic country to make a criminal code that “accommodates all interests.”


Winastra says that the new laws caught him and others off guard because they felt the government had been very enthusiastic about increasing foreign tourist arrivals. “Now there will now be rules and laws that will burden tourists and the industry,” he added. Like most major tourist hotspots around the world, Bali suffered significant economic turmoil during the COVID-19 pandemic. From over 500,000 foreign visitors each month, arrivals slumped to as low as 45 for the entire year of 2021.


However, with the pandemic in retreat, government and tourism industry officials had been forecasting a healthy revival, potentially bringing in billions of dollars of revenue for the Indonesian economy.


The World Travel & Tourism Council, a global industry body, forecast annual growth of 10% for Indonesia’s travel industry over the next 10 years, predicting the sector would contribute nearly $118 billion dollars to the country’s GDP while creating over 500,000 jobs each year for the next decade.


Local guide Ken Katut told CNN Travel he believed things were “progressing in the right direction” in the tourism industry after G20 leaders held a summit in Bali last November. Hotels were bustling with delegates, Ken said, and he was “thrilled” to be busy ferrying tourists around the island. “The G20 was great for us who had been out of work during the pandemic,” he said. “It really brought Bali back to life.” Now, some worry the momentum will lessen just as it was picking up again.


What Now?

Under the new criminal code, anyone – Indonesians or foreigners – found guilty of adultery or premarital relations could face 12 months in jail. It is not yet clear how these laws will be enforced.


“Do tourist couples (visiting Bali) have to prove that they are married? Should we be asking them if they are married or not?” wonders Putu.


“Now foreign tourists will think twice about traveling to Bali because someone might jail them for violating the laws.”


Rights groups have noted how the laws will disproportionately affect women and members of the LGBTQ+ community, and added that they could “provide an avenue for selective enforcement.”


Hotel operators have also objected to the laws, saying it would be difficult for them to enforce.


“Asking couples if they are married or not is a very private area and it will be an impossible task to do,” said Ida Bagus Purwa Sidemen, Executive Director of the Indonesian Hotel & Restaurant Association (PHRI).


Sidemen feels that the Indonesian government will review the laws following a public backlash. “We just can’t be asking every couple about their legal marital statuses. It will create huge problems for us,” he said.


“But what is going to happen to us now if the new laws scare tourists off? Will we go back to how we were during the pandemic?”


“The government can’t want tourists (revenue) and enforce these laws that will scare people away. It just makes no sense.”

Monday, February 27, 2023

Breakup Lines That Will Leave You Spinning By Miss Know It All

Miss Know It All

Breaking up with someone means the relationship is over. It is the end of a precious bond that you have put your heart and soul into maintaining. The ending can be a blessing in disguise or an upsetting occurrence. Either way, most of us have gone through a breakup and have heard some of the most baffling lines that people have used. With the onset of social media and various apps, the breakup has become even more outlandish. Maybe it is my age. There was a time when a telephone call, a face-to-face conversation, a Dear John Letter, or a note by snail mail would have sufficed.


What can be annoying are the reasons folks give for breaking up. Some are hilarious while others are downright confusing. Therefore, without further ado, the following are some breakup lines that will leave you wondering, “What the devil was he or she really saying?”

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It is not you; it is I - This is one of the most commonly used and very corny ways of saying. “I really did not want to tell you how exhausted I am with our relationship, yet, I did not want you to feel terrible about it. Really?

 

I need to focus on my profession right now - We all have thoughts about our careers, but that is something you should have made clear before wasting each other’s time.

 

We are better off as friends - I am a firm believer that you should become friends first before getting into a serious relationship, but what this really means is that the person is not really into you. This is one way of saying, “I am a friend zoning you and do not wish to date you. I really see you as one of my associates.”

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I am not ready for commitment - These words are just bad. If being in a committed relationship is not your aspiration, do not make it a reason for not wanting to put the effort into maintaining that relationship.

 

I do not want to hurt you - Unless you are a sadist or masochist, I cannot see anyone wanting to be in a tactless relationship. After all, love is not supposed to hurt.

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I think we are moving too quickly - The message means the person is not planning to be with you for long and is likely seeing someone else.

 

You deserve better - The individual should have realized that before forming a relationship.

 

These are just some of the breakup lines tossed on social media. If you know of any breakup lines that left you reeling, send them to info@oneworldsinglesblog.net and we will post them soon.

Monday, February 20, 2023

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Monday, February 13, 2023

Why African Marriages Break Up in the Diaspora

 

Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, an international romance author, shares her reasons why African marriages break up in the Diaspora.


Monday, February 06, 2023

Bumble Reveals Dating Trends to Expect in 2023

You can say in 2022, dating has been a stormy ride. So what is in store for our love lives in 2023?

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Over the past year, relationship priorities have shifted, with people favoring increased vulnerability and mindfulness, as well as giving sober (curious) dating a whirl. A new trend called Winter Coating has emerged, whereby people reach out to former partners and exes to rekindle an extinguished flame so they will have someone to keep them warm during the winter. The cost of living is also having a major impact on dating habits, with many opting for "cash candid dating" — increased transparency over their finances (and money worries) in the early stages of dating. Environmentally conscious singles are opting for "green dating" and eliminating potential matches not aligned with their views on climate change.

 

Dating app Bumble has released its annual predictions for what we can expect in the New Year. Warning, emotional needs are high on people's list of priorities.

 

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Naomi Walkland, Bumble’s vice president for Europe, said, "2022 was a formative year with the return of travel, the drastic increase in our social lives and commitments, and several turbulent global events." She added it left many people feeling exhausted and overwhelmed in response to these changes. "In response to this, we’ve seen that people on Bumble are now prioritizing, identifying, and clearly articulating their boundaries. These boundaries can be emotional, like being upfront about what they want or recognizing red and green flags, physical, like ensuring they don’t over commit themselves, or financial, encouraging candid conversations about previously taboo topics." 

 

New Year - New Men - In a survey of 14,300 Bumble users around the world, seventy-four percent of men say they have looked inward and analyzed their own behavior more than ever and have a clearer understanding of toxic masculinity. The term toxic masculinity refers to a set of beliefs and behaviors, including hiding your emotions or distress, using violence or "tough-guy" behavior as a way of showing power, and exhibiting an appearance of "hardness". Fifty-two percent of people on Bumble are actively trying to challenge the gender stereotype men should not show emotions out of fear of seeming "weak". Over a third (thirty-eight percent) of people now talk about emotions more openly with male friends, and half of the men think that dismantling gender roles in relationships and dating will benefit them.

 

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Guard Railing - Setting boundaries is essential in all kinds of relationships — whether you have just started dating, you are at work, or in any other situation involving interactions with other human beings. Sixty-three percent of daters say they are clearer about emotional needs and boundaries, and fifty-nine percent are more thoughtful and intentional about how they put themselves out there, with fifty-three percent aiming to not over-commit to socializing.

 

Love-life Balance - Many people have been redefining what work and professionalism mean to them in 2022. It makes sense, therefore, that people are also inspecting the values they seek in romantic partners. Looking good on paper and prioritizing professional success are not at the top of everyone's list these days. In what people are looking for in a partner, fifty-four percent of people surveyed care more about their work/life balance than their career status. One in ten people will no longer date someone who has a very demanding job, and fifty-two percent of people are actively trying to make more space for rest in their life.

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Open Casting - One in three daters is now more open to considering dating beyond their "type". In the UK in particular, fifty-two percent of daters are expanding their horizons beyond what they would typically go for. One in four people is less pressured when meeting other people's expectations of whom they should date.

 

Ethical Sex-ploration - Let us talk about sex. Forty-three percent of daters are navigating sex and intimacy in a more exploratory and open way, while fifty-three percent believe it is paramount to express sexual wants and needs early in a relationship. Over the past year, twenty percent of daters have explored their sexuality more, and one in eight people are considering ethical non-monogamy. These figures do not mean people are having more sex. However, in the UK, forty-two percent of daters surveyed are currently not having sex, and they are fine with that, and globally, thirty-four percent said the same.

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Wander Love - Thirty-three percent of people on Bumble is now more open to having relationships with people not in their current city. With more jobs allowing for flexible work arrangements and even "digital nomad" arrangements, fourteen percent of daters have explored the prospect of becoming a digital nomad and dating people from far-flung destinations.

 

Dating renaissance - Many of us know someone who had a pandemic breakup. Per Bumble's data, thirty-nine percent of people on the dating app ended a marriage or serious relationship within the past two years. These individuals are not entering a second chapter — a renaissance if you will — and some of whom (thirty-six percent) are using dating apps for the very first time.

 

If 2022 was anything to go by, we are in for more changes in 2023 — hopefully positive ones, like those listed above.