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The first date is electrifying,
but it can also be awkward—especially when the bill arrives. The age-old
question lingers: who should pay? While traditional norms suggested men should
foot the bill, modern dating has blurred the lines. Here is how to manage it
without the stress.
I believe the couple should
decide before going on the date as to who will pay.
Some people still believe
the person who started the date should pay. If you asked them out, offering to
cover the check shows confidence and courtesy. But if your date insists on
splitting, do not argue—it is a sign of independence, not disinterest. Others
prefer going Dutch (splitting the bill) to keep things fair from the start.
This avoids any assumptions or pressure, making it a popular choice for casual
meetups.
If you are unsure, a
simple, "Can I get this?" opens the conversation. Their response will
guide you in. If they hesitate, suggest splitting. If they are adamant about
paying, thank them and offer to cover the next outing. Small gestures, like
grabbing coffee or dessert afterward, can also balance the dynamic.
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Money should not dictate
the vibe. Focus on connection over who pays. A first date is about getting to
know each other, not keeping score. If things go well, there will be more chances
to take turns treating each other.
At the end of the day, there’s no one-size-fits-all rule. Whether you pay, split, or take turns, the key is to communicate openly and keep the mood light. Subsequently, a great first date is less about the bill and more about the chemistry.©
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