Monday, July 20, 2026

Why Having a Paternity Test Done When You are Accused of Being the Father of a Child by Vivienne Diane Neal

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I was watching a TV court case where a 28-year-old man was suing a 40-year-old woman who accused him of being the father of her child. Because he used protection and did not believe the child was his, he was asking for $3500 for emotional distress, because they had a one-night stand and he was not interested in building a relationship with this woman. She believed that the two would have a growing and loving relationship and would eventually become a family. His idea was to hit it and quit it and started to ghost her.

Suddenly, an image of the woman posing with a baby appearing on a social media was seen by a friend of the young man and informed him that the child looked exactly like him. She informed him that he was the father but to him that was impossible since he used protection.

After having sex with the woman in her home, he threw the used condom into the wastebasket and left. But little did he know, the woman, who was desperate to have a baby, removed the prophylactic from the trash, and with a hypodermic needle injected the semen into her body.

The court was able to get the DNA results, and it was discovered that the young man was not the father. He was awarded the money for his emotional pain.

There are lessons to be learned from this case:

  • Never leave a used condom in someone else’s home; flush it down the toilet bowl or take it with you and discard it in your place of residence.
  • Condoms can break and may result in an unwanted pregnancy.
  • Using a used condom without the man’s permission is not a crime in most U.S. states, but it can lead to a civil suit and may be illegal in certain districts.
  • Before you engage in sex with someone you hardly know, or you are not serious about forming a committed and loving relationship that involves having a child, or you are only just seeking a one-night stand, be honest with yourself and the person you are having an intimate encounter with to avoid any misunderstandings that can lead you to becoming a plaintiff or a defendant in a court case.

For more information about Pregnancy Entrapment Laws: What is illegal and What’s Not, click here

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