What Happens to the Gifts When an Engagement is Called Off?

 Many years ago, a relative had an engagement party, and we gave the couple a gift. I can’t remember the present, but the couple never married. In fact, we didn’t find out they were no longer engaged until ten years later.

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The fate of gifts exchanged during an engagement when broken can depend on various factors, including the jurisdiction and the nature of the gifts. Consulting with a lawyer for specific legal advice is recommended.

 

In many cases, the laws surrounding engagement gifts are similar to those governing engagement rings. Some jurisdictions consider engagement gifts conditional gifts, given in anticipation of marriage. If the engagement is called off, the person who provided the gift may have the right to request its return, as the purpose for which the gift was given (marriage) is no longer valid.

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However, the outcome can differ based on the circumstances and local laws. For instance, if the gift was given on a specific occasion, such as a birthday or holiday, it might be viewed as an absolute gift and not subject to return. Similarly, if the gift was an heirloom or family treasure, it might have different legal implications.

It's important to note that the laws regarding engagement gifts can be complex and may vary from one jurisdiction to another. Additionally, specific agreements or understandings between the parties involved can also impact the resolution. If you find yourself in such a situation, it is advisable to seek legal advice to understand your rights and obligations following the applicable laws in your area. ♦