Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Monday, September 21, 2026

Looking for Love? Try “Love is Blind”

 

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Love Is Blind is a Netflix reality dating series built around a bold social experiment: Can people fall in love and commit to marriage without ever seeing each other first? The show tests whether emotional connection can outweigh physical appearance.

Core Concept

Singles date one another in soundproof “pods”, where they can talk but cannot see each other. Over about 10 days, they build emotional bonds purely through conversation. If a connection feels strong enough, one person may propose marriage — still sight unseen.

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Only after the proposal is accepted do the couple meet face-to-face for the first time.

What Happens After the Pods?

Once engaged, couples move through several stages designed to evaluate their compatibility in the real world:

  • Couples’ retreat: A week-long getaway to explore physical chemistry and meet other engaged couples.
  • Cohabitation: They move into shared apartments in their home city, meet friends and family, discuss finances, habits, and lifestyle.
  • Wedding planning: Dress shopping, suit shopping, cake tasting, and preparing for the big day.
  • The altar: Each person decides whether to say “I do” or walk away.

Global Popularity

The show has become one of Netflix’s most-watched reality franchises, spawning versions in Brazil, Japan, Sweden, the UK, Mexico, France, Italy, Poland, and more.

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Why People Watch

Love Is Blind blends romance, drama, emotional vulnerability, and social psychology. Viewers get:

  • Unexpected matchups
  • Relationship challenges
  • Emotional breakthroughs
  • Wedding-day twists
  • Reunion specials that reveal who stayed together

It’s part dating show, part experiment, part roller-coaster.

For more information, go to Love is Blind | Netflix Reality

Monday, September 14, 2026

Are You Relieved When Your Husband is Away? How to Respond


Romance author and advisor Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku will offer tips when a wife is relieved when her husband is away. Enjoy and please subscribe to her channel. 🙏

Monday, August 17, 2026

Two Big Reasons Why Many People are Single

Romance author and relationship advisor Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku will give two big reasons why many men and women are single.

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Monday, July 20, 2026

Why Having a Paternity Test Done When You are Accused of Being the Father of a Child by Vivienne Diane Neal

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I was watching a TV court case where a 28-year-old man was suing a 40-year-old woman who accused him of being the father of her child. Because he used protection and did not believe the child was his, he was asking for $3500 for emotional distress, because they had a one-night stand and he was not interested in building a relationship with this woman. She believed that the two would have a growing and loving relationship and would eventually become a family. His idea was to hit it and quit it and started to ghost her.

Suddenly, an image of the woman posing with a baby appearing on a social media was seen by a friend of the young man and informed him that the child looked exactly like him. She informed him that he was the father but to him that was impossible since he used protection.

After having sex with the woman in her home, he threw the used condom into the wastebasket and left. But little did he know, the woman, who was desperate to have a baby, removed the prophylactic from the trash, and with a hypodermic needle injected the semen into her body.

The court was able to get the DNA results, and it was discovered that the young man was not the father. He was awarded the money for his emotional pain.

There are lessons to be learned from this case:

  • Never leave a used condom in someone else’s home; flush it down the toilet bowl or take it with you and discard it in your place of residence.
  • Condoms can break and may result in an unwanted pregnancy.
  • Using a used condom without the man’s permission is not a crime in most U.S. states, but it can lead to a civil suit and may be illegal in certain districts.
  • Before you engage in sex with someone you hardly know, or you are not serious about forming a committed and loving relationship that involves having a child, or you are only just seeking a one-night stand, be honest with yourself and the person you are having an intimate encounter with to avoid any misunderstandings that can lead you to becoming a plaintiff or a defendant in a court case.

For more information about Pregnancy Entrapment Laws: What is illegal and What’s Not, click here

Monday, June 08, 2026

Is a Pre-Nuptial Agreement Necessary Before Getting Married? By Vivienne Diane Neal

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Awhile back I wrote “Getting Your Finances in Order Before Getting Married.” When it comes to marriage, love and trust are often at the forefront of the conversation, but sometimes not setting up legal measures. But in today’s world, more couples are asking: Is a prenuptial agreement necessary? It may be when it comes to certain situations.

A pre-nuptial agreement is a legal contract that outlines how assets, debts, and other financial matters will be managed if a marriage ends. While it may seem unromantic, it’s a practical tool that can protect both partners.

One of the biggest reasons couples consider a pre-nup is financial transparency. Before signing, both parties must show their assets and debts, which can prevent surprises down the road. If one person owns a business, has significant savings, or carries student loans, a pre-nup ensures these details are clear from the start. It’s not about distrust; it’s about setting expectations.

Another key benefit is protection. If you’ve built wealth before marriage or expect an inheritance, a pre-nup can safeguard those assets. Without one, state laws may dictate how property is divided, which might not align with your wishes. It’s especially useful for second marriages or couples with minor children from earlier relationships, as it can clarify financial responsibilities and avoid conflicts later.

However, pre-nups aren’t just for the wealthy. Even if you don’t have a high net worth, they can outline responsibilities like debt repayment, spousal or child support. They can also address non-financial matters, such as how pets or family heirlooms will be managed.

Of course, a pre-nup isn’t for everyone. Some couples find the process uncomfortable, and if not managed fairly, it can create tension. The key is open communication and approaching it as a mutual decision, not a one-sided mandate. Consulting a lawyer ensures the agreement is fair and legally sound.

Ultimately, whether a pre-nup is necessary depends on your situation. It’s a personal choice yet having the conversation early can prevent misunderstandings and provide peace of mind. Marriage is a partnership, and a pre-nup is just one way to protect it. 💑

Monday, June 01, 2026

Things to Do Before Tying The Knot by Miss Know It All


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June is the month where many festivities take place, namely graduations, commemorations, and weddings. Since weddings are popular during this month, there are some things a couple should do before saying, “I Do.”

Clarify what marriage means to each of you.

Couples often see married life in a unique way. Experts recommend discussing how you each envision daily life, roles, boundaries, and what partnership looks like to you. This helps to achieve expectations early.

Have an honest conversation about money.

Money or the lack of is one of the biggest sources of conflict in marriage. Couples should discuss it openly:

  • Spending habits
  • Saving styles
  • Debt
  • Financial goals
  • How bills will be shared. This prevents misunderstandings and future tension.

Discuss sex, intimacy, and love languages!

·        Sexual expectations, frequency, desires, and boundaries should be openly discussed. Beyond sex, talk about emotional intimacy and how you each give and receive love. Mismatched love languages can lead to feeling unappreciated if not addressed.

Talk about future goals and life direction!

You don’t need to have the same dreams, but you do need compatible ones. Discuss:

  • Career plans
  • Where you want to live
  • Lifestyle expectations
  • How you’ll support each other’s ambitions This helps you function as a team.

Decide how you feel about having children!

Whether you want kids, how many, when, and how you’d oversee parenting roles are essential conversations. This is no longer an assumed part of marriage — alignment matters.

Understand each other’s communication styles!

Healthy conflict resolution is crucial. Discuss how you each handle disagreements, what triggers you, and how you can communicate more effectively. This strengthens your ability to navigate challenges.

Explore deeper fears and emotional patterns!

Counselors note that disagreements often stem from deeper fears — fear of conflict, fear of failing as a spouse, or fear of vulnerability. Understanding these helps you support each other better.

Consider premarital counseling!

Premarital counseling helps couples practice tough conversations, build communication skills, and prepare for long‑term partnership. It’s an initiative-taking way to strengthen your foundation.

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Pause if destructive patterns appear!

If you find yourselves stuck in painful or harmful relational cycles, experts say it’s okay to pause engagement plans until you work through them. Marriage should never be rushed. 

Miss Know It All

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Monday, March 09, 2026

Are you Married but Stalking Your Ex on Social Media?

Romance Author/Relationship Advisor, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku, shares her advice on why you should stop stalking your ex.

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Monday, September 15, 2025

How to Avoid Dating or Marrying 10 Types of People


Romance Author and Relationship Advisor Stella Eronmonsere-Ajanaku gives her advice on the types of people you should avoid dating or marrying. Enjoy, and please subscribe to her channel and leave your comments.

Monday, August 11, 2025

Impact of Spouses Children Born Outside of Marriage

Romance author and advisor Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku shares her views when children are born outside of a marriage. 

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Monday, July 21, 2025

Why Long-Term Marriages are In Trouble

Romance Author and Relationship Advisor Stella Eronmonsere-Ajanaku provides 5 top reasons why long-term marriages are in trouble and what to do that will cost nothing.

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Monday, June 02, 2025

When a Couple Sells Tickets to Their Wedding by Miss Know It All

 

Miss Know It All

I am giving away my age when it comes to weddings and who should pay.

 

The first wedding I attended was in the 50s. As a rule, the bride’s parents paid for the wedding. And the last wedding I went to was in the 90s. I am not sure who paid for the festivity, but I do know the bride and groom never asked their guests to purchase tickets to attend their nuptial, and if they did, the talk among friends and relatives would have made a memorable talk of the town.


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How the dynamics have changed, and some weddings, especially larger or more elaborate ones, may require guests to buy tickets. This approach can help manage guest lists and cover costs for elaborate venues or special entertainment. I read where a couple was selling tickets for $350.00 to attend their wedding party.

 

The average cost of a wedding has seen a steady increase compared to previous years. This uptick is attributed to a combination of inflation, heightened demand for personalized experiences, and the continued impact of post-pandemic economic recovery. While the average expenditure varies widely depending on location, style, and guest count, couples are generally spending more to create memorable and unique celebrations.

 

The average wedding, depending on where you live, can cost anywhere from $25,00 to $75,000 dollars. When it comes to planning a wedding, couples pay for their own wedding, or both parents of the bride and groom will pay. Of course, cultural and ethnic differences may play a role as to who will pay for the wedding.

 

I can understand setting up a gift registry. But when you sell tickets to finance your wedding, you may be asking others to go into debt to pay for your festivity. You and your partner are getting married not your guests.

 

Before saying, I Do, decide if you are financially able to plan an elaborate fête. If you are already in debt, it will only get worse if you take on a bigger obligation that can stick with you for years to come, affecting your credit rating.

 

You can always go to City Hall or plan an economical wedding.

 

Spend time on ways to build a long and happy marriage, which is more important than spending money you don’t have on the wedding. ##

 

Would you pay $350.00 to attend a wedding? Please leave your comment below.

Monday, April 21, 2025

7 Strategic Uses for Your Wedding Gift Money by Claire Wentz

 

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A wedding is not just a celebration of love but also a pivotal moment to plan for a shared future. The gifts you receive can be more than sentimental; they can be the cornerstone of your financial journey together. By channeling these funds into strategic investments, you can enhance your educational prospects, secure financial stability, and even contribute to your community. This approach not only strengthens your bond but also sets the stage for a prosperous life together.

Investing Wedding Gifts in Your Education

Consider using your wedding gift money to pursue an online degree as a strategic investment in your future. Online education offers the flexibility to study at your own pace, making it easier to balance work and family commitments while advancing your career. By earning a master’s degree in nursing, you can explore diverse career paths such as nurse education, informatics, administration, or advanced practice roles. This not only enhances your professional prospects but also increases your earning potential, contributing to a stable and prosperous future together. Take a look at the MSN degree program overview to get an idea of how to get started.

Help Others Get an Education

Consider channeling your wedding gift money into a scholarship fund that bears your names, creating a meaningful legacy that supports educational growth in your community. By establishing a scholarship, you not only celebrate your union but also open doors for students who might otherwise miss out on educational opportunities. Platforms like Bold.org simplify the process, allowing individuals and businesses to create scholarships that reflect their values and aspirations. You can opt for an endowed scholarship, where the principal remains invested, and the interest is used to support students annually, ensuring a lasting impact.

Grow Your Money with Smart Savings

To make the most of your wedding gift money, consider opening a high-yield savings account dedicated to your emergency fund. These accounts often offer interest rates that significantly exceed the national average, allowing your savings to grow more quickly. While accessing funds from an online savings account might require a transfer to a checking account, this extra step can help you avoid spending on non-essential items. By placing your emergency fund in a high-yield account, you not only protect your financial future but also benefit from compound interest, which can substantially increase your balance over time.

Ensure a Debt-Free Future

Using your wedding gift money to kickstart a debt repayment plan can be a smart move for your financial future. By choosing a strategy like the debt avalanche or debt snowball, you can systematically address your debts, either by focusing on high-interest debts first or by quickly eliminating smaller debts for a motivational boost. The debt avalanche method helps reduce the total interest paid over time, while the debt snowball method offers psychological benefits by providing quick wins. Whichever approach you choose, dedicating your wedding gifts to these plans can speed up your journey to financial stability, allowing you to focus on your future goals together.

Use Smart Investment Strategies

Using your wedding gift money wisely can set the foundation for long-term financial stability. Consider investing in mutual funds or exchange-traded funds (ETFs) to grow your wealth over time. Mutual funds are actively managed, offering the potential to outperform market indices, while ETFs provide a cost-effective way to gain broad market exposure, reducing investment costs and capital gains taxes. By diversifying your portfolio with a mix of these funds, you can balance risk and reward, aligning with your long-term financial goals such as retirement savings.

Plan For Travel

Using your wedding gift money to set aside funds for travel and shared experiences is a meaningful way to invest in your relationship and create lasting memories. Instead of spending it all on material items, consider designating a portion for trips, weekend getaways, or special activities that allow you to explore new places and enjoy quality time together. Traveling as a couple fosters deeper connection, strengthens communication, and brings excitement to your marriage. Whether it’s a dream honeymoon, an anniversary retreat, or spontaneous adventures, these shared experiences will not only enrich your bond but also provide cherished memories that last a lifetime.

Boost Your Credit Score

Using part of your wedding gift money to pay off outstanding medical bills is a smart financial move that can provide peace of mind and a solid foundation for your marriage. Medical debt can quickly accumulate interest and, if left unpaid, may negatively impact your credit score, making it more challenging to achieve future financial goals such as buying a home or securing a loan. By addressing these expenses early, you reduce financial stress and free up more of your budget for shared experiences, savings, and future investments.

Thoughtful investment of your wedding gift money can pave the way for a secure and fulfilling future. These decisions not only enhance your financial health but also strengthen your partnership, setting the stage for a lifetime of shared success.

Monday, January 27, 2025

Dating to Marry | 7 Attributes You Need Before Marriage

 

Romance Author, and Relationship Coach Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku shares seven tips on what men need to know before saying, “I Do.”

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Monday, October 14, 2024

What are The Criteria for Getting on The Golden Bachelor or The Golden Bachelorette Shows?

 

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The Golden Bachelor made its debut on September 28, 2023. The bachelor chose the woman, he wanted to spend the rest of his with. They got married on the show but divorced after three months of marriage because neither one of them wanted to leave his or her residence since they both lived in separate states. Wow, who saw that coming?

 

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There is a saying, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” I wondered if the couple discussed their living arrangements before saying, “I Do.” I am not going to speculate as to what really happened.

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Now, we have The Golden Bachelorette, which premiered on September 18, 2024, starting Joan Vassos, who previously competed for Gerry Turner’s heart in the introductory season of “The Golden Bachelor” last year. 

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If you are an older single, thinking about appearing on The Golden Bachelor or The Golden Bachelorette, consider the following factors before branching out into the world of romance:

1. Candidates are typically older, often in their 60s and above.

2. Must be single, divorced, or widowed.

3. Looking for charismatic, engaging, and interesting individuals who can connect well with the audience and other contestants.

4. Clean background check is likely required.

5. Candidates should be in reasonably good health to participate in the activities and filming schedule.

6. Must be available for the entire filming period and promotional events.

7. Having an interesting personal story or background is often a plus.

8. Must complete an application process, which might include interviews, auditions, and providing personal information and photos.

These criteria ensure that the contestants are suitable for the show's format and can contribute to its entertainment value.Top of Form

But I will add the following: If you decide to be with the person you select, know if you are willing to relocate if you two live in different states.

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Would you consider signing up to appear on The Golden Bachelor or The Golden Bachelorette? Please leave your remarks in the comment section below. Thank you. 

Monday, July 15, 2024

Which Occupation Has the Highest Divorce Rate?

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If you plan to get married, you may want to know which profession may impact your marriage.


Many people with unique attitudes may need to take into account how various issues can cause the breakdown of a marriage.

 

Forbes released a comprehensive list of divorce statistics. Understanding divorce figures is crucial for gaining insights into the patterns, reasons, and global perspectives surrounding this multifaceted subject.

 

This guide aims to provide an in-depth exploration of divorce information, shedding light on key trends, common reasons for divorce, as well as the impact of COVID-19.

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What is Divorce? Divorce is a legal process that formally ends a marriage, requiring the consent of both parties. It serves as the ultimate step when a relationship becomes untenable or unbearable, providing individuals with the opportunity to move forward independently.

 

What Are the Most Common Reasons For Divorce? Various factors contribute to the dissolution of marriages, highlighting the complexity of human relationships. Common reasons for divorce include:

 

·Lack of Commitment - This is the leading cause of divorce worldwide, accounting for 75% of cases. When one or both partners lack full commitment to the relationship, it can create significant challenges.

 

·Alcoholism and Substance Abuse - Substance abuse, particularly alcoholism, can strain relationships and lead to the breakdown of trust and communication. 

 

·Physical or Emotional Abuse - Abuse, whether physical or emotional, also plays a significant role in approximately 34.6% of divorces.

 

·Financial Problems - Disagreements over money matters and recurring financial problems can create significant tension within a marriage. This includes problems with debt or spending. These issues contribute to 36.1% of divorces.

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Which Country Has the Highest Divorce Rates? India has one of the lowest divorce rates globally. Cultural and social factors, such as the importance placed on family values and the stigma associated with divorce, contribute to this trend. On the flip side, Japan offers one of the easiest divorce procedures, with a 100-day rule for finalizing cases. This streamlined process allows couples to navigate divorce more efficiently, allowing Japanese couples to get divorced more easily. Even with this in mind, Luxembourg has the highest divorce rate in the world, with 80 of 100 marriages on average going south.

 

Which Gender Has the Highest Divorce Rates? Historically, women have been legally ending their marriages at a higher rate than men. However, in recent years, the gap has begun to narrow, and divorce rates have become more similar for all genders. Various social, economic, and cultural changes, including shifts in gender roles, increased female empowerment in many countries, and growing attitudes towards divorce, can contribute to this. While divorce rates may differ by gender, the factors influencing divorce are often similar for both men and women. Common reasons for divorce include lack of commitment, infidelity, communication problems, financial issues, and incompatibility.

 

Which Occupation Has the Highest Divorce Rates? - Certain professions exhibit higher divorce rates compared to others. Occupation alone cannot determine the success or failure of a marriage, and the statistics found could represent a case of “correlation does not equal causation.” However, the findings can be interesting to consider.


Maids have a divorce rate of 26.3%. The demanding nature of their work and the challenges associated with maintaining work-life balance may contribute to these higher divorce rates, although it is impossible to say based on these numbers alone.

 

Individuals working in the entertainment industry, such as actors and performers, face unique pressures and challenges that can strain their relationships. The divorce rate among entertainers stands at 28.4%. Their unique schedules, combined with elements such as touring and stage romances, may contribute to this statistic. 

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The demanding nature of nursing jobs, with irregular schedules and high stress levels, can place strain on relationships. Nurses have a divorce rate of 28.9%. Bartenders also have a high divorce rate, with the high-stress environment and potential exposure to alcohol-related issues potentially contributing to a divorce rate of 38.4% among bartenders.

 

However, the highest divorce rate belongs to dancers. The intense physical demands of dance professions, coupled with the challenges of maintaining relationships within the industry, contribute to a divorce rate of 43%.

 

How Has the Pandemic Affected Current Divorce Rates? The COVID-19 pandemic had an unprecedented impact on various aspects of life, including relationships. The prolonged lockdowns and increased time spent together in confined spaces placed strains on many marriages. However, we are still seeing the knock-on effects of this stressful period of recent history.

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Several countries experienced a surge in divorce rates during the pandemic, reflecting the strain on relationships caused by factors such as financial stress, increased domestic responsibilities, and limited social support. Experts suggest that the pandemic highlighted existing issues within relationships and exacerbated others. Common reasons for divorce during the pandemic included increased conflict, infidelity, and the reevaluation of life priorities.

Monday, February 05, 2024

In Dating, Should I Try Matchmaking? | How Do I Know The Person To Marry?

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku is back giving advice on matchmaking, leading to marriage.

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Monday, December 04, 2023

Top 10 Ways to Avoid Heartbreak - How to Know if Your Relationship is Going to The Altar or to Nowhere

International Romance Author, Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku offers great advice for singles on how to know if marriage is in your future.

Stella and her husband Augustine are celebrating their 24th Wedding Anniversary today. We are wishing them a Joyous Anniversary. 💞

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Monday, October 16, 2023

Questions You Should Ask Before Engaging in Sex

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Engaging in sexual activity involves mutual consent, communication, and understanding. It's important to have open and honest discussions with your partner to ensure a consensual and comfortable experience. Here are some questions that you and your partner should ask each other:

 

What are your boundaries and limits regarding sexual activities? Are there any specific acts or behaviors that you are uncomfortable with or want to avoid?

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Have you been tested for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? Have you had yourself tested for STDs and STIs? What protection methods, such as condoms or dental dams, will you be using? Years ago, a doctor on a TV talk show said, “If you are having sex, you are participating in a high-risk behavior.”


What contraceptive methods are you using to prevent unintended pregnancies? Are you currently using any form of birth control?

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Are you at ease discussing desires, preferences, and any concerns or fears? How will we both ensure ongoing communication during the experience?

 

Are you emotionally ready and willing to engage in sexual activity? Is there a level of trust and connection between us?

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What type of relationship are you seeking? Are we both in agreement with expectations and intentions?

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Remember, these questions are meant to be open and honest. Communicate in a respectful and non-pressure manner. Permission and ongoing talks are key aspects to a healthy and enjoyable sexual happening.♥