Monday, September 22, 2025

Finding Love in the World of Modern Dating by Vivienne Diane Neal

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If you are having problems finding someone to date with the various online dating apps, you may want to consider using PowerPoint Dating. It is an IRL, which stands for In Real Life, a twist on modern matchmaking using slides. Instead of reading profiles on dating apps, friends create PowerPoint arrangements to pitch their single friends to a live audience of probable dates. It is part performance, part persuasion, and all about celebrating personality in a fun, communal setting.

How It Works:

  • A friend builds a 3-minute PowerPoint presentation highlighting why their single friend is date-worthy.
  • Presentations include fun facts, photos, anecdotes, and sometimes cheeky stats.
  • After the pitch, there is a 2-minute break where the audience can ask questions.
  • The goal is to spark interest, laughter, and even an actual connection.

Why It is Catching On:

  • Many people are tired of endless swiping and ghosting.
  • People are seeking real-life charm.
  • It presents community vibe.

The concept gained traction through matchmaking events and festivals. It is a refreshing reminder that dating can be creative, collaborative, and a little silly, in the best way. 💕

Would you ever let a friend pitch you like that? Or you would rather be the one behind the slides? 

Monday, September 15, 2025

How to Avoid Dating or Marrying 10 Types of People


Romance Author and Relationship Advisor Stella Eronmonsere-Ajanaku gives her advice on the types of people you should avoid dating or marrying. Enjoy, and please subscribe to her channel and leave your comments.

Monday, September 08, 2025

The Truth About Conditional Love in Dating by Miss Know It All

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Love and dating can feel like a high-stakes game, especially when gifts come with strings attached. A conditional gift is when someone gives something (time, money, affection) expecting something in return, whether it is loyalty, commitment, or even control. While gifts in a relationship should come from generosity, people can use them as bargaining chips, turning romance into a transaction.

Dating today is full of unspoken expectations. Someone might buy expensive dinners, lavish presents, or constant attention, but if they later hold it over their partner’s head ("I did so much for you!"), it stops being love and starts feeling like a contract. Conditional gifts create pressure, and relationships built on obligations rarely last. Love should never feel like a debt.

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The romance industry thrives on grand gestures—luxury dates, surprise trips, designer gifts—but real connection is not about material exchanges. If gifts come with expectations, they stop being sweet and become manipulative. A healthy relationship is built on mutual care, not scorekeeping. When someone genuinely cares, they give without keeping track.

So how do you spot conditional gifting early? Watch for patterns. Does your partner get upset if you do not reciprocate exactly as they hoped? Do they remind you of what they’ve "done for you" during arguments? These are red flags. True love does not demand repayment, it flows freely.

At its core, dating should be about shared joy, not transactions. Gifts are wonderful when given with no strings attached. If you find yourself in a relationship where every act of kindness comes with an invisible price tag, it might be time to reevaluate. Love should lift you up, not tie you down with conditions. A strong relationship thrives on generosity—not on unspoken debts. 💘 

Monday, September 01, 2025

Alienation of Affection: When Love Gets Stolen

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Ever felt like someone pounced in and stole your partner’s heart? That is alienation of affection—a legal term for when a third party interferes in a relationship, causing one partner to emotionally detach. While it sounds like something from a dramatic soap opera, it is a real issue that can wreck relationships.

In the dating world, alienation of affection often happens subtly. A coworker starts texting your partner late at night, or an old flame suddenly reappears, showering them with attention. Over time, these outside influences can create distance, making your partner question their feelings for you. It is not always about cheating; sometimes, it is just emotional drift caused by someone else’s interference.

Social media has made this even thornier. A flirty DM or a nostalgic comment on an old photo can spark doubts. Suddenly, your partner is comparing your relationship to what-ifs, and that’s where trouble begins. The key is to spot the signs early—less communication, sudden secrecy, or unexplained emotional withdrawal.

So, how do you fight back? First, communicate openly. If something feels off, talk about it without accusations. Second, set boundaries—both with outsiders and within your relationship. If someone’s overstepping, call it out. Lastly, focus on strengthening your bond. Date nights, deep conversations, and small gestures remind your partner why they chose you in the first place.

Of course, not all relationships can be saved. If alienation of affection has done too much damage, it might be time to walk away. But if both partners are willing to work through it, love can bounce back stronger.

However, if you are legally married, Alienation of Affection is a rare legal claim that allows a spouse to sue a third party—often, a lover—for intentionally interfering in a marriage and causing the loss of affection. While most states have abolished this misdeed, six U.S. states still recognize it: Hawaii, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah. The fundamentals necessary to prove your case will depend on the laws of each state.

At the end of the day, whether married or not, relationships take effort from both sides. Keep the connection strong, and no outsider can shake what you have built together.

For additional information on the legal aspects of Alienation of Affection, please click here. 💔


Monday, August 25, 2025

Rent a Date: A Modern Twist on Dating, Love, and Relationships


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The dating world has evolved dramatically over the years, and one of the more unconventional trends gaining traction is the concept of "rent a date." Whether for social events, companionship, or even practice dating, this service offers a unique solution for those navigating the complexities of modern romance. But what does it really mean to rent a date, and how does it fit into today’s relationship landscape?

What Is Rent a Date? Rent a date services allow individuals to hire a companion for a set period, often for events like weddings, parties, or even casual outings. Unlike traditional dating, these arrangements are typically transactional clients pay for time and companionship without the expectation of a long-term relationship. Some platforms even offer "practice dates" for those looking to build confidence or improve their social skills.

While the idea might seem strange at first, it is rooted in practicality. Many people turn to rent-a-date services to avoid awkward questions at family gatherings, to have a plus-one for special occasions, or simply to enjoy a no-strings-attached evening out.

Why Do People Rent Dates? The reasons vary widely:

1. Social Pressure – Family events can be stressful, especially when single. Renting a date helps avoid prying questions about one’s love life.

2. Companionship – Some people just want someone to talk to or share an experience with, without the complications of a real relationship.

3. Practice Dating – For those re-entering the dating scene after a long hiatus, a rented date can serve as a low-pressure way to brush up on social skills.

4. Networking – In some cases, a charming plus-one can help make professional connections at social gatherings.

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How Does It Work? 

Most rent-a-date services operate through apps or websites where clients browse profiles, select a companion, and book a time. Prices vary depending on the duration of the date, the companion’s experience, and the nature of the event. Some services even offer background checks to ensure safety and professionalism.

Unlike escort services, rent-a-date arrangements usually emphasize platonic interactions, though boundaries can vary depending on the agreement between the client and the companion.

The Ethics and Controversies  

While many see it as harmless fun, others question the ethics of monetizing companionship. Critics argue that it commodifies relationships, reducing human connection to a transaction. There is also the risk of blurred lines—some clients may develop real feelings, while others might expect more than what was agreed upon.

On the other side, supporters argue that rent-a-date services provide a valuable solution for people who struggle with social anxiety, loneliness, or societal expectations. In a world where dating apps often prioritize swipes over genuine connection, renting a date can offer a more controlled and predictable experience.

Rent a Date vs. Traditional Dating - Traditional dating is built on mutual interest, chemistry, and the potential for a long-term relationship. Rent-a-date, however, is a service—clear expectations, no emotional baggage, and a defined end point.

That said, some rented dates have led to real relationships. While rare, spending time with someone in a low-pressure setting can sometimes spark genuine connections. Still, most clients and companions enter these arrangements with clear boundaries.

The Future of Rent a Date - As society becomes more accepting of alternative relationship models, rent-a-date services may continue to grow. Some predict that AI and virtual dating companions could eventually enter the market, offering even more options for those seeking companionship.

However, the core appeal remains the same—human connection, even if temporary, fulfills a basic need. Whether for convenience, confidence-building, or simply avoiding loneliness, rent-a-date services are carving out their own niche in the dating industry.

At the end of the day, love and relationships come in many forms, and renting a date is just another way people are adapting to the ever-changing landscape of modern romance. While it may not be for everyone, it is certainly an intriguing option for those looking to navigate dating on their own terms.💜

Monday, August 18, 2025

Understanding Love Bombing: When Love Turns Bad

 

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Love bombing is a term that is gained traction in dating and relationship circles, often described as an overwhelming display of affection early in a relationship. It might seem romantic—constant compliments, grand gestures, and an intense emotional connection. But beneath the surface, love bombing can be a manipulative tactic used to control or exploit someone.

What Is Love Bombing?

Love bombing is when one person showers another with excessive attention, praise, and affection to create a deep emotional bond quickly. The "bomber" might text constantly, declare their love prematurely, or make grand promises about the future. While genuine affection is normal at the start of a relationship, love bombing is different—it is calculated, often with an ulterior motive.

Psychologists link love bombing to narcissistic or controlling behavior. The bomber overwhelms their target with affection to create dependency, making it harder for the person to recognize red flags later.

Signs of Love Bombing

1. Rapid Intensity – They say "I love you" within days or weeks, pushing the relationship faster than feels natural.

2. Excessive Flattery – Over-the-top compliments that feel insincere or too frequent.

3. Constant Communication – Non-stop texts, calls, or demands for attention.

4. Grand Gestures – Expensive gifts, surprise trips, or public declarations early on.

5. Isolation Tactics – They may try to pull you away from friends or family, making you reliant on them.

6. Emotional Manipulation – If you express discomfort, they might guilt-trip you ("I just care so much").

Why Do People Love Bomb?

Love bombing is not always intentional—some people are naturally intense in relationships. However, when it is manipulative, the motives can be harmful:

Control – Narcissists or abusers use love bombing to gain power over their partner. 

-Insecurity – Some bombard out of fear of abandonment, smothering their partner to keep them close.

Love Addiction – They crave the high of new romance and move too fast.

Scams or Exploitation - Con artists use love bombing to gain trust before financial or emotional exploitation.

The Aftermath: Devaluation and Discard

In toxic relationships, love bombing is often followed by devaluation—once the bomber feels secure, they withdraw affection, becoming critical or distant. This emotional whiplash keeps the victim confused and desperate to regain the first "perfect" phase.

Eventually, some love bombers discard their partners, abruptly cutting ties once they lose interest or find a new target. This can leave the victim feeling used, heartbroken, and questioning their self-worth.

How to Protect Yourself

1. Slow Down – Healthy relationships develop naturally. If it feels too fast, it is.

2. Watch for Inconsistencies – Do their actions match their words?

3. Keep Boundaries – Do not let love bombing pressure you into commitments.

4. Seek Outside Perspectives – Friends and family can spot red flags you might miss.

5. Trust Your Gut – If something feels off, do not ignore it.

Recovering from Love Bombing

If you have been love bombed, healing is possible. Recognize that the intensity was not love—it was manipulation. Therapy, self-care, and time can help rebuild trust in yourself and future relationships.

Final Thought: Love should feel safe, not suffocating. Real affection grows with patience, respect, and mutual effort—not grand, rushed displays designed to sweep you off your feet before dropping you without warning.💔

Monday, August 11, 2025

Impact of Spouses Children Born Outside of Marriage

Romance author and advisor Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku shares her views when children are born outside of a marriage. 

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Monday, August 04, 2025

News for Travelers

 

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Monday, July 28, 2025

The Pleasure of Doing a Staycation by Miss Know It All

 

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In today’s fast-paced world, vacations often feel like another item on the to-do list—packing, traveling, making travel reservations, long lines at the airport, and dealing with unexpected annoyances. But what if the perfect escape was right at home? A staycation offers the best of both worlds: relaxation and adventure without the stress of travel. For couples and families, it is an excellent opportunity to reconnect, unwind, and create lasting memories.

 

A staycation does not mean sitting around in pajamas all week, but that is okay. It is about intentionally carving out time to enjoy your surroundings with fresh eyes. Turn your home into a mini-resort—set up a backyard picnic, have a movie marathon with homemade popcorn, or camp in the living room with blankets and fairy lights. The key is to break the routine and focus on quality time together.

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One of the biggest benefits: No rushed itineraries. Instead of dragging yourself through crowded tourist spots, let the day unfold naturally. Explore local parks, visit that museum you have always meant to check out. The slower pace lets everyone relax and engage without the pressure of "making the most" of a trip.

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Staycations also encourage creativity. Kids can help plan activities, like a scavenger hunt or a themed dinner night. Parents get a break from daily chores by ordering takeout or splitting responsibilities differently. Without the distractions of work or school routines, conversations flow more easily, and laughter comes more freely.

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Best of all, a staycation reminds us that joy does not require a passport, a real ID Card, or an Optimum Card. Whether it is starwatching from the backyard or rediscovering hidden gems in your own town, the real magic lies in being fully present with the people you love. So next time you crave a break, consider staying home. You might just find that the best adventures start at home.

Monday, July 21, 2025

Why Long-Term Marriages are In Trouble

Romance Author and Relationship Advisor Stella Eronmonsere-Ajanaku provides 5 top reasons why long-term marriages are in trouble and what to do that will cost nothing.

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