Monday, September 05, 2011
What You Should Know Before Traveling Abroad
If you are planning to travel abroad, there are certain rules and regulations that you should be aware of when visiting any country. Many tourists are detained because they have unintentionally broken the law. Always be aware of and obey the laws of the country you plan to visit. When you travel outside of the USA, the constitution does not follow you. You are subject to that country’s local laws. Being prepared and knowledgeable of the places you plan to visit is your best defense.
The following tips should make your traveling safe and enjoyable:
If you encounter difficulties with authorities overseas, the U.S. consular official may provide you very little assistance. Both foreign and U.S. laws limit what American officials can do. The U.S. Government has no funds for your legal fees or other related expenses.
Should you become destitute abroad, the U.S. consul will help you get in touch with your family, friends, bank, or employer and will tell you how to arrange for them to send funds for you. In some cases, these funds can be wired to you through the Department of State.
Deal only with authorized outlets when you exchange money, or buy airline tickets or traveler’s checks. Shop around for the best exchange rate.
Notify the local police at once and apply for a replacement passport at the nearest U.S. Embassy or consulate immediately if your passport, credit cards, or traveler’s checks are stolen or lost. If credit cards or traveler’s checks are lost, contact the issuing companies promptly.
If you are planning to take any prescription drugs on your trip, check with your physician, or the embassies of the country you are visiting to ensure you do not violate foreign laws. Many tourists have been innocently arrested for having drugs not considered narcotics in the USA, but are illegal in other countries. You can ask your doctor for a certificate stating to your need for a drug to make customs processing smoother. However, this may not be enough authorization to carry drugs into some foreign countries.
Be sure to take along an ample supply of medication, and keep it in a carry-on-bag if you have allergies or other medical conditions. Do not make the common mistake of packing all your medications in your suitcase, which can be lost or stolen.
Before you go, you may obtain a list of English-speaking doctors for the areas you plan to visit. Contact the International Association for Medical Assistance to Travellers for such a list at http://www.iamat.org/
Always leave medicines in their original labeled containers. Ask you pharmacist for the generic name of any prescribed drug in case you need to refill the prescription. Brand names differ in other countries.
If you are allergic to certain medications, insect or snake bites, wear a medical alert bracelet and carry a similar warning in your wallet.
Bring an extra pair along with your lens prescription and ample supplies of lens solution and cleaner if you wear eyeglasses or contact lenses.
A U.S. consular officer can help you find a physician if you become injured or seriously ill abroad. He or she can arrange the transfer of funds from your family or friends in the United States to pay for your treatment.
Carry a summary of your medical records. Be sure to include past illnesses and blood type.
Many countries have established entry regulations for AIDS, particularly for students and other long-term residents. Check with the embassy or consulate of the individual country to see if this applies to you.
Once you have reached your destination, if you have problems or concerns, visit the American Embassy to register. Let them know where you are staying, the areas you plan to visit and when you will be returning to the United States.
If you are planning to bring valuables on your trip such as a watch, jewelry, camera, check with U.S. Customs regarding registration requirements and proper proof of ownership. Always obtain a receipt before buying any foreign item, especially antiques.
Keep all receipts for items that you buy overseas. They will be helpful in making your U.S. customs declarations when you return.
If you plan to drive an automobile while in a foreign country, check with the AAA Club to see if you will need an international driver’s license and to find out where you can purchase supplemental insurance coverage, as needed. Inquire about local requirements at the embassy or consulate of the countries in which you plan to drive. If possible, obtain road maps of these countries in advance. Some countries do not recognize a U.S. driver’s license. However, most countries accept an international driver’s license. Obtain one before you depart at a local office of an automobile association. You must be at least 18 years old and will need two passport-size (2x2 inches) photographs and your valid U.S. license. Certain countries, such as Switzerland, require road permits in lieu of tolls for using their divide highway. Fines may be levied on driers who have no permit.
There have been occasions when companies selling seats on charter flights have gone out of business in the middle of the season, stranding passengers abroad. Therefore, if you plan to travel on a charter flight, consider purchasing trip insurance. If you are unsure of the reputation of the charter company or tour operator, consult the Better Business Bureau or your local consumer office.
You can obtain one from the country’s embassy or consulate, from an airline serving the country or at the port of entry if the country you plan to visit requires a tourist card. For some tourist cards, a fee is required. Check entry requirements while you are planning your trip.
Bring along a pocket calculator to help convert currencies.
Carry personal items such as toothbrush, toothpaste, washcloth and soap with you. If you are separated from your luggage and have to spend a night in a hotel, due to a delay in take off, those items will be with you.
You must file a report with the U.S. Customs Service if you are taking more than $10,000.00 out of the United States in coins, currency or traveler’s checks.
Take precautions to prevent yourself from becoming ill while you are abroad. Get a medical and dental checkup before your trip and make sure you are up-to-date with the following immunizations: Measles, Mumps, Rubella, Diphtheria, Polio, Tetanus and Whopping Cough.
Bon Voyage
Monday, August 29, 2011
Featuring Caramel Vixen, Author of Thickness: A BBW Erotic Anthology
Are you looking for a great read of dreamy sagas and sizzling plots, which features voluptuous divas looking for love and romance? Well look no further.
From the lustful mind of the queen of BBW Erotica, (Caramel Vixen) comes the highly anticipated collection of a lifetime. Thickness: A BBW Erotic Anthology follows the adventures of these full figured divas as they take fantasy rides of passion. From lust-filled revenge, to unrequited passions, there’s a story for every erotica lover.
WARNING: EXTREMELY HOT BOOK! Contains explicit sex and language and or subject matter
Excerpt from Thickness: A BBW Erotic Anthology
Tia couldn’t deny the fact that the way he demanded her to give him some always turned her on. She slowly slid down her uniform pants revealing that she didn’t have on any panties.
“Ooh, you wore my favorite underwear”, Dr. Bryant exclaimed. “None”
“I know how you like it papi.” Tia said licking her lips as she watched him unzip his tan silk trousers and let them slide down his legs to the floor. He then took his briefs off in the same manner. Tia was so eager to feel and taste her lover that she pulled his six foot five frame closer and pulled his throbbing dick to her lips and kissed the head as if she was French kissing his lips.
All while massaging the shaft. “Mmm…oh my Tia, yeah my queen, oh shit, oh!” She had never made him cum within the first five minutes of oral pleasure before. “Tia, lay on your back, I’m hungry.” Tia complied. She was more than happy to anything that meant that she was about to get the pleasure and stimulation that her body desired.
She wasn’t even paying attention, she just assumed that he was preparing to penetrate her with that delicious dick of his. But, what he did next was a pleasant surprise even for her. He then poured hot chocolate sauce on her pussy lips and then took to devouring her as if she would be the last meal he ever had.
He penetrated her with his tongue, swirling it around and around her clitoris causing her to cum repeatedly until she couldn’t take it anymore and began begging him to fuck her.
“Trevor, fuck me, PLEASE!”
“Is that what you want? Say you want it.” Trevor loved to be demanding during sex.
“Yeah, Trevor, that’s what I want.”
“Say that shit louder then girl. Let everybody know that you want it.”
“I WANT IT TREVOR!” She screamed.
“Then bend over so I can give it to you since that’s what you really want.”
He feverishly drilled his manhood into Tia’s thickness, not even slowing down to fully release his juices in her. He somehow flipped Tia’s big, juicy ass over without breaking the connection his huge dick had with her warm, wet pussy.
All of a sudden the door was opened. In the doorway stood Tia’s loving and devoted husband. He had come to take his precious wife to lunch and all the while she’d been busy being Dr. “Feel Good’s” meal.
With tears of rage in his eyes, he lunged forward and grabbed Trevor’s neck, attempting to strangle the life out of him. Tia was so shocked that she was frozen solid. She couldn’t scream, she couldn’t pull up her pants, she couldn’t move at all. Just as Trevor was slipping out of consciousness, Jonathan looked over at his wife and said, “Since you like to be fucked instead of made love to, then let me fuck you bitch.”
That snapped Tia out of her frozen trance. “What!?! Johnny?” Tia was shocked, pissed, hurt and somehow turned on at the same time.
“I said let me fuck you, if you can handle it, I might not leave your cheating ass.” Jonathan snapped.
“Johnny?” Tia was puzzled. Yet excited, but, she wasn’t ready to show her excitement.
“Come on ho, you know you want it.” Johnny demanded showing a side of him that Tia had never seen before. She couldn’t deny it any longer. She was finally completely turned on by her husband and she liked the feeling. “Get on your knees, Tia.” Jonathan instructed his adulterous wife, whom happily complied. He then forcefully shoved his pulsating dick into Tia’s wet hungry mouth.
She had never desired her husband so much. She couldn’t wait to taste his cum as it ebbed from the head of his johnson and into her plump lips. Once she eagerly swallowed his juices, he instructed her to bend over and hold her ankles. For a full figured sista, Tia was limber as hell. Jonathan then grabbed the baby oil off of the doctor’s desk and then told her to hold her ass cheeks open for him.
Pleasantly surprised by her husband’s new found gumption she couldn’t even question him as she did what she was asked. She suddenly felt a cold, wet tingling sensation as he squirted a huge glob of baby oil gel in her asshole.
He then gently toyed with her anus, to make sure it was properly lubricated and slowly forced his huge tool into her awaiting behind. He pumped her slow and hard, just the way she liked it. It made her wonder why he hadn’t put it down on her like this before, had he, she never would have cheated, she thought. She had the ultimate orgasm just as Trevor came to. She had been so into Jonathan that she had forgotten all about the doctor.
As she pulled her pants back up she looked at the doctor and then looked at her husband and said, “baby, I will never stray again. Let’s go home.” Then she looked at Dr. Bryant and said, “I’m taking the rest of the day off.”
After that day she and the doctor never spoke again. He had shamefully put in his resignation and left town.
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About The Author: Caramel Vixen is in her late twenties. When she is not working on her next masterpiece, she is busy reading someone else’s great romance or erotic read, or hot street lit. She also enjoys cooking, shopping and spending quality time with her fiancĂ©. She resides in North Carolina.
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Website and Purchase links
Caramel Vixen Books
Amazon.com
Barnes&Noble
Monday, August 22, 2011
Do Men and Women Really Think Differently When It Comes to Romance by Miss Know It All

However, men and women look for different substances in each other.
What a woman looks for in men is sensitivity, sincerity, intimacy, romance, communication, commitment, respect and steady income.
What a man looks for in a woman is looks, femininity, and a woman who makes a man feel needed and a woman who enjoys sex.
Do you believe men and women think differently when it comes to romance? If so, please tell us by adding your view in our comment box.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
We Have A New Look
As you can see, we have redesigned our site to make it more pleasing and easy on the eyes. Hope you love our new look. Since our previous template was outdated, we had no choice but to change our site. In the near future, we will be adding on new features.
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Monday, August 15, 2011
Beware of Emails Bringing False Gifts by Miss Know It All
Recently I received the following email: Unusual Transaction Activity. “During a review of your account, unusual transaction activity was identified. For your protection, (the name of the bank has been left out to protect the innocent) has taken the precaution of suspended access to your account. Because attempts to contact you by phone have been unsuccessful, we urge you to contact our Customer Service department immediately.”
If this were not so serious, I would be laughing all the way to the bank, because I do not have an account at the bank that was mentioned; if I did, I would have immediately send this notice to the trash bin.
An email like this is a common everyday occurrence. This type of activity is known as phishing, which is a method of trying to obtain sensitive information such as your username, password, pin number and credit card information by camouflaging as a truthful institution, such as a bank or an online payment system. If you respond to this type of notice, you can end up losing the shirt off your back.
The FTC suggests these tips to help you avoid being hooked by a phishing scam:
- If you get an email or pop-up message that asks for personal or financial information, do not reply. In addition, do not click on the link in the message, either. Legitimate companies do not ask for this information via email. If you are concerned about your account, contact the organization mentioned in the email using a telephone number you know to be genuine, or open a new Internet browser session and type in the company’s correct Web address yourself. In any case, don’t cut and paste the link from the message into your Internet browser — phishers can make links look like they go to one place, but that actually send you to a different site.
- Area codes can mislead. Some scammers send an email that appears to be from a legitimate business and ask you to call a phone number to update your account or access a “refund.” Because they use Voice Over Internet Protocol technology, the area code you call does not reflect where the scammers really are. If you need to reach an organization, you do business with, call the number on your financial statements or on the back of your credit card. In any case, delete random emails that ask you to confirm or divulge your financial information.
- Use anti-virus and anti-spyware software, as well as a firewall, and update them all regularly. Some phishing emails contain software that can harm your computer or track your activities on the Internet without your knowledge.Anti-virus software and a firewall can protect you from inadvertently accepting such unwanted files. Anti-virus software scans incoming communications for troublesome files. Look for antivirus software that recognizes current viruses as well as older ones; that can effectively reverse the damage; and that updates automatically.A firewall helps make you invisible on the Internet and blocks all communications from unauthorized sources. It is especially important to run a firewall if you have a broadband connection. Operating systems (like Windows or Linux) or browsers (like Internet Explorer or Netscape) also may offer free software “patches” to close holes in the system that hackers or phishers could exploit.Do not email personal or financial information. Email is not a secure method of transmitting personal information. If you initiate a transaction and want to provide your personal or financial information through an organization’s website, look for indicators that the site is secure, like a lock icon on the browser’s status bar or a URL for a website that begins “https:” (the “s” stands for “secure”). Unfortunately, no indicator is foolproof; some phishers have forged security icons.Review credit card and bank account statements as soon as you receive them to check for unauthorized charges. If your statement is late by more than a couple of days, call your credit card company or bank to confirm your billing address and account balances.Be cautious about opening any attachment or downloading any files from emails you receive, regardless of who sent them. These files can contain viruses or other software that can weaken your computer’s security.Forward spam that is phishing for information to spam@uce.gov and to the company, bank, or organization impersonated in the phishing email. Most organizations have information on their websites about where to report problems.If you believe you have been scammed, file your complaint here, and then visit the FTC’s Identity Theft website at www.consumer.gov/idtheft. Victims of phishing can become victims of identity theft. While you cannot entirely control whether you will become a victim of identity theft, you can take some steps to minimize your risk. If an identity thief is opening credit accounts in your name, these new accounts are likely to show up on your credit report. You may catch an incident early if you order a free copy of your credit report periodically from any of the three major credit bureaus. See http://www.annualcreditreport.com/ for details on ordering a free annual credit report.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Flirty & Feisty Romance is Having A Contest: Enter Now!
Flirty & Feisty Romance wants to know why you read romance and other genres. They are giving away BEYOND the LADY eBooks to two lucky winners who leave comments on our site under the article How & Why I got into the Romance Genre by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku!
Contest ends August 18, 2011. Leave your comments along with your contact information in the comment box.
Good luck!
Contest ends August 18, 2011. Leave your comments along with your contact information in the comment box.
Good luck!
Monday, August 08, 2011
HOW & WHY I GOT INTO THE ROMANCE GENRE by Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
In truth, my childhood love heroes are my parents. I saw my father openly shower affection on my mother all through my growing up years. I remember always wishing to find the kind of love they still share. This is the first time I’ve successfully traced the source of my unflinching love for romance genre. As a teenager, my past time was locking myself in my bedroom, lying on my unmade bed and travelling into the diverse world of make believe, artfully crafted by Mills & Boon authors.
I enjoy ‘travelling’ abroad with the characters. I love the conflicts and ways the heroine and hero waffle through it all and end up happy. I cry, laugh and picture myself in their shoes. I must have read several hundreds. And so, my love for all things romance took root and deepened. I have a natural flair and profound passion for writing. It was only a matter of time for my deep-seated love for romance, my fertile imagination, and my love for writing to coincide. I’ve always dreamed of being stranded on an Island with my gorgeous and unbelievably affectionate husband, churning out romance novels.
And my dream started to emerge as God intends, when I told a colleague in August 2008 that I’d love to get published. She stuck a reporter’s notebook in my hand and told me to write as I commute. I’m inspired to write as ideas and dialogue swirl around my head and the characters take hold of my heart.
In 2010, I created Flirty & Feisty Romance Novels. And I have five titles: LOITERING SHADOWS, STORMY DEFENSE, BEYOND the LADY & THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN. The latest, SPARKLING DAWN was released this July. Writing and self-publishing as a whole has been an incredible experience.
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SPARKLING DAWN (EXCERPTS)
At once, Chloe felt the tiny, sleepy hair on her neck rising majestically as the tall, suavely dressed, irresistible, broad shouldered man stood up to make way for an award winner shuffling his way to the podium. He placed a pink, cashmere shawl on the shoulders of the petite woman seated beside him. The elfin brunette was preening herself like a courting rooster. Who could blame her? She was accompanying the best-looking man of the night.
‘It will be nice if you could at least pay me a tenth of the attention you’re dishing out to that total stranger seated at the front row.’ Michael snarled at his partner for the night.
Chloe was shaken out of her riveting reverie.
Her attempt at subtlety has fallen flat! ‘Michael, I’m sorry. I need to use the bathroom. I don’t feel well.’ Her stomach felt like it was falling apart anyway. A stinging storm has just kicked up in her near perfect life. And so, sitting still for this ceremony she’d wanted to avoid for months was proving challenging. Not waiting for his response, she got up hurriedly on unsteady legs. Grasping her purse, she made a beeline to the nearest powder room. Her exit was hasty, drawing several curious glances she was oblivious to.
As she shut the door behind her, her pulse rate skyrocketed, forcing her to clutch the hand wash for life support. Resting her head on the 3D, plain wall mirror, she counted up to thirty five to calm down. Taking in a large gulp of re-circulated air, she placed her black, sequined bag on the marble vanity top.
Warren Marcus Alexander…was here in London? How could he sit down there looking so cool, while she was a quivering wreck?
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‘Chloe!’ Warren’s explosive chant of her name made her feet tremble. For the umpteenth time in her life, she wished things could be normal between them. She wished she could tell him…
‘Come and join me.’
Her feet found their way to the extravagantly furnished bedroom. The Chateau Grand Louis bedroom collections were obviously original pieces. The slow melody filling the scented candle lit room provided the perfect setting for seduction. Her anxious feet grew deep roots by the door.
‘Come and dance with me.’ His invitation was irresistible. But she needed to remember that dancing with the enemy couldn’t feature in her still-to-be-fine-tuned revenge plan.
‘No, thank you. I thought you wanted us to talk, not lure me into your bed.’ The instant she uttered the words, the music stopped. Was the music Claridges remote controlled? His green eyes took on an unsettled glint, narrowing perceptibly. ‘Why are you being so antagonistic and cynical, Chloe?’
Keeping her distance, she walked into the room. ‘Perhaps, if you stick to a known plan, rather than deviating into an amorous agenda, I might be more amenable.’ Her statement was accompanied by a dramatic shrug of one bare shoulder.
His nostrils flared at the hint of her creamy, smooth cleavage. Boiling, red, body fluid rushed to his lower body, specifically into the part of him captured in his fly. ‘Come and sit down, and we’ll talk.’
For some reason, he couldn’t fathom, she didn’t trust him a single blink. Considering they had literarily grown up together and never had quibbles, he wondered where her wariness of him came from. Or was she this catty with every man? ‘Would your boyfriend frown at you talking with me in my bedroom?’
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REVIEWS:
THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN:
http://www.bloglovin.com/m/2682959/244418335/fb
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/68220
BEYOND the LADY:
http://myquietword.blogspot.com/2011/03/mqw-book review_14.html#links
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/66847
http://freebookreviews.blogspot.com/2011/07/beyond-lady.html
AWARDS: THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN: National Novel Writing Month(NaNoWrimo) 2010 Winning title.
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Where to Purchase Author’s E-Books
Smashwords
STORMY DEFENSE
BEYOND the LADY
THE GARDENER's ICE MAIDEN
LOITERING SHADOWS
SPARKLING DAWN
Amazon.co.uk
LOITERING SHADOWS
STORMY DEFENSE
BEYOND the LADY
THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN
Amazon.com
LOITERING SHADOWS
STORMY DEFENSE
BEYOND the LADY
THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN
SPARKLING DAWN
PAPERBACK
Amazon.com
CreateSpace
LOITERING SHADOWS
STORMY DEFENSE
BEYOND the LADY
THE GARDENER’s ICE MAIDEN
SPARKLING DAWN
Author Website
Amazon Author Page
Monday, August 01, 2011
Curry Delight, the Spice of Life for a Hot Romantic Meal
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| Curried Sausages and Apples |
Curry powder, a yellowish color spice, traditionally used in Caribbean, Indian and Southeast Asian cooking, is really a blend of many spices, and may have over fifteen different ingredients. Curry usually consists of turmeric, which provides its yellow color, paprika, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, various peppers, coriander, cumin and other spices.
The flavor of curry powder can be mild, pungent or hot and goes great with goat, beef, chicken, fish, veal, lamb, pork, eggs, vegetable dishes and marinades for meats.
When cooking, use low heat to avoid a bitter taste. Since the flavor of curry is imparted immediately, add the spice about fifteen minutes before the end of the cooking period.
Add spice to your love life by preparing the two delectable curry creations from our kitchen to yours.
Happy cooking!
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Curried Sausages and Apples
1 lb. Italian sweet sausages
4 scallions cut up
4 large Delicious apples, peeled, cored and cut in cubes
2 teaspoons mild curry powder
2 teaspoons cornstarch + l/2 cup water, mixed thoroughly.
In a skillet, parboil sausages for 10 minutes. Pour off water. Over medium heat, brown sausages until well done about 30-45 minutes. Stir in remaining ingredients and simmer for 15 minutes. Makes 4 servings.
Curried Chicken in Potatoes
6 chicken legs
2 tablespoons peanut oil
1 whole onion, sliced
1 tablespoon mild curry powder
1 tablespoon cornstarch
1 cup cold water
6 white potatoes, peeled and cut into cubes
Season chicken with salt, paprika, pepper, and let stand overnight. In a large saucepan over medium heat, heat oil. Add onions and sauté until lightly browned. Mix in curry powder. In a separate bowl, mix cornstarch and water until well blended. Add to curry mixture and stir well. Add chicken and potatoes. Cover and let simmer for 30-45 minutes or until chicken and potatoes are tender. Makes 6 servings.
Monday, July 25, 2011
IMRR Bookclub is Having a Beach Read Contest
Monday, July 18, 2011
Dating Spaces: That Middle Ground Between Casual & Intimate by Brett Scuiletti
Creating a comfortable and inviting date space in your home or apartment is a great way to encourage longer, more intimate date nights. Though you and your date will inevitably go out to dinner, a movie, or some other affair during your night out, there can be an awkward pause when figuring out where to go next. For both men and women alike, it’s difficult to suggest just going back to your own place, because there are so many obvious and implied intents that suggestion could represent. To avoid making your date think you just want to hop in bed with him or her, you can suggest a middle ground that will likely be greeted more warmly than just the generic “come back to my place.
By crafting your own home bar area, you’ll be able to enjoy a refined space that feels casual, but intimate. You and your date will be able to enjoy some private time together, though the bar space will create an artificial distance barrier. This helps both of you feel more relaxed. If the night stays at the bar space, there’s no awkwardness or confusion, as having a couple of casual drinks is totally normal in such a space. But if things start drifting the other way, you’ll also be conveniently close to the living room couch and the bedroom.
To assemble a home bar area that you can be proud of and want to show off to special guests, make sure you give it just the right touch. Of course, make sure the bar’s well stocked. Plenty of choices equates to plenty of variety, so any date will be satisfied with his or her options. And when it comes to bar furniture, stylish seating matters. Make sure you pick up multiple bar stools, at least 3, because having only 2 will imply that you intended this bar only for date scenarios. With 3 or more bar stools available, it will imply that the space is also used for friendly, casual gatherings. The bar stools themselves should also be of high quality and upscale design, so go with wood or stainless steel designs if you can.
When you need that all-important middle ground date space that provides a comfortable in-between for you and your date between ‘too casual’ and ‘too intimate,’ you can’t do much better than a home bar. Plus, home bars come with many other benefits, all of which you can enjoy whether you’re on date night or not.
| Photo: © by Yuri Arcurs - Dreamstime.com |
By crafting your own home bar area, you’ll be able to enjoy a refined space that feels casual, but intimate. You and your date will be able to enjoy some private time together, though the bar space will create an artificial distance barrier. This helps both of you feel more relaxed. If the night stays at the bar space, there’s no awkwardness or confusion, as having a couple of casual drinks is totally normal in such a space. But if things start drifting the other way, you’ll also be conveniently close to the living room couch and the bedroom.
To assemble a home bar area that you can be proud of and want to show off to special guests, make sure you give it just the right touch. Of course, make sure the bar’s well stocked. Plenty of choices equates to plenty of variety, so any date will be satisfied with his or her options. And when it comes to bar furniture, stylish seating matters. Make sure you pick up multiple bar stools, at least 3, because having only 2 will imply that you intended this bar only for date scenarios. With 3 or more bar stools available, it will imply that the space is also used for friendly, casual gatherings. The bar stools themselves should also be of high quality and upscale design, so go with wood or stainless steel designs if you can.
When you need that all-important middle ground date space that provides a comfortable in-between for you and your date between ‘too casual’ and ‘too intimate,’ you can’t do much better than a home bar. Plus, home bars come with many other benefits, all of which you can enjoy whether you’re on date night or not.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Riding The Writing Roller Coaster, by Melissa Foster
| Author Melissa Foster at Charlottesville Book Fest |
When I decided to become a writer, I mean really become a writer—drop everything else I was working on and hunker down to actually write my first novel, I didn’t stop to think about if people would want to read it. It sounds funny, but I was so excited about writing, that I hadn’t gotten to the thoughts of what happens after it’s written. When I finally typed “The End” on the first draft, reality came tumbling in, along with worried thoughts about if anyone would want to read my book.
I’ve often said that handing your completed book to readers is like standing on a street corner naked—you don’t know if readers will throw tomatoes or whistle (I prefer the whistles). This statement, I’ve found, is true for every book I write. The worry doesn’t fade.
Imagine my surprise when MEGAN’S WAY was named Finalist in the 2010 Next Generation Indie Book Awards. That was quite an honor. I think I must have screamed for 23 hours straight (my family wore ear plugs). This year, MEGAN’S WAY won the 2011 Beach Book Festival Award, which brought tears of joy. The funny thing is, even though some of the worried thoughts have lessened, I still get butterflies when someone says they’re going to read my book.
Now, with the film adaptation of MEGAN’S WAY on the horizon, you’d think my worries would fade completely. People like my book. Whew! My writing has been compared to Jodi Piccoult, which is a great honor, and to add another layer of happiness, my writing in CHASING AMANDA, my second novel, has been likened to Ted Dekker by a lovely reader. I couldn’t be happier with the compliments, and yet, there’s still that flitter of concern in my belly. Every book is not for every reader, and much like ice cream, we’re lucky they come in several different flavors, or genres. I’m thankful for all of the readers who appreciate my books.
I’m approaching the film adaptation with joy and pushing aside my worries about what viewers will think. Those who enjoy the movie will gain entertainment, and hopefully enlightenment of the themes that are woven through the story of friendship, acceptance, and the bonds of secrecy. I have faith in my director, Wendy Crouse, and know the movie will be as wonderful as the book itself. For me, the honor of the awards and film adaptation are simply icing on the cake. I was thrilled when I received the first reader review, and am just as thrilled with every review I have received since. The excitement never ends (and neither do the butterflies).
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"Megan's Way is a fine and fascinating read that many will find hope in." Midwest Book Review
What would you give up for the people you love?
When Megan Taylor, a single mother and artist living on Cape Cod, receives the shocking news that her cancer has returned, she's faced with the most difficult decision she's ever had to make. The love she has for her daughter, Olivia, and her closest friends will be stretched and frayed.
Megan’s illness reawakens the torment of her best friend, Holly Townsend, whose long-held secrets and years of betrayal come back to haunt her. How does one choose between a daughter and a life-long best friend? Can the secret she has been keeping be revealed after years of lying without destroying everyone in its wake?
Meanwhile, fourteen-year-old Olivia's world is falling apart right before her eyes, and there's nothing she can do about it. She finds herself acting in ways she cannot even begin to understand. When her internal struggles turn to dangerous behavior, even the paranormal connection she shares with her mother might not be enough to save her - her life will hang in the balance.
Megan’s Way is a journey of self discovery and heartfelt emotions, exploring the depth of the mother-daughter bond, and the intricacies of friendship.
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MEGAN’S WAY (Excerpt)
Chapter One
2009
Megan steadied herself against the cold porcelain sink, hoping the morning’s nausea would subside and trying to strengthen herself for the tough decision that had been wreaking havoc with her mind lately, and the choice that lay ahead. The familiar Tink, pause, Tink, pause on her bedroom window drew her attention. A confused cardinal had repeatedly gone beak to glass in recent weeks, as though trying to rouse her. As she tried to calculate the number of times she’d also awakened to nausea, the familiar surge of bile rose in her throat.
She clung to the toilet as if it were a security blanket. The smell of last night’s dinner still wafted in the air, sending her body into convulsions of dry heaves. Great, Megan thought as she grasped her stomach. She looked up at the ceiling, What the hell am I going to do now?
“Mom?” Olivia’s voice carried down the hall. “Mo-om!” The single word stretched into two perfect teenage syllables.
Megan heard the drama in her voice and closed her eyes against her growing frustration. She knew that particular scream, the self-centered, in-a-hurry, where’s-my-stuff scream. She did not have the patience to deal with Olivia’s drama on this particular morning. She grabbed hold of the sink and pulled herself up. Her stomach lurched again, causing her whole body to clench. She prayed for some relief as Olivia’s voice came screaming at her again.
“What!” she snapped back. She wished she could have been more patient with Olivia, but at that moment, she was overtaken by exhaustion, confusion, and anger. She wanted to kick something, to cry, to scream until she no longer had a voice—but her body was too tired to do any of those things. She had to pull herself together and get through the day.
Megan rinsed out her mouth and averted her eyes from the sheet-white face that reflected back at her.
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About the Author
"Melissa Foster is a wonderful connector of readers and books, a friend of authors, and a tireless advocate for women. She is the real deal"--Author Jennie Shortridge
Melissa Foster is the author of two novels, Megan’s Way and Chasing Amanda. She is the founder of the Women’s Nest, a social and support community for women, and is currently collaborating with Director Wendy Crouse, Dream Real Pictures, in the film production of Megan’s Way. Melissa hosts an annual Aspiring Authors contest for children, she's written a column featured in Women Business Owners Magazine, and has painted and donated several murals to The Hospital for Sick Children in Washington, DC. Melissa is currently working on her next novel, and lives in Maryland with her family. Melissa's interests include her family, reading, writing, painting, friends, helping women see the positive side of life, and visiting Cape Cod.
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Awards:
Megan's Way
2011 Beach Book Award Winner (Spirituality)
2010 Next Generation Indie Book Award Finalist (Spirituality)
Nominated Dan Poynter's Global eBook Award 2011(Winners TBD summer 2011)
Chasing Amanda
Nominated Dan Poynter's Global eBook Award 2011 (Winners TBD summer 2011)
Member: Maryland Writers' Association
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Sites to Visit:
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Monday, July 04, 2011
10 Words That Describe What Love is to Me
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Monday, June 27, 2011
Meet Sibel Hodge, Chicklit Author of Four Winning Novels
My name is Sibel Hodge and I’m a chicklit author!
I was standing up when I said that so should I duck now and wait for the squidgy tomatoes to be thrown at me? I know some of you lovely readers might appreciate a hefty dose of chicklit, but there are still a lot of chicklit-haters out there! Why? Haven’t got a clue, to be honest, because if you think about it, chicklit has been around for years. Just look at Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen! It was possibly one the first romantic comedies - yep, that’s right, Jane Austen wrote chicklit!
And since chicklit and fun go hand in hand, I thought I’d show you my take on this amazing genre!
May was the inaugural International Chicklit Month, and I had the pleasure of hosting a fabtastic giveaway of chicklit books on my blog. All people had to do to enter was leave a comment saying exactly what they love about chicklit. And this is where the fun part comes in!
Here are a few quotes from the comments:
“I can be sitting here reading a book, laughing out loud, snickering, and more, and I could try to explain to my hubby what is so funny, and he just doesn't get it!!!”
“Why do I like chick lit? Because it offers realistic characters, intriguing settings, and often, a good dose of humor”
“Reading a chicklit novel is like having a gossip session with a girl friend, and that is a guilty pleasure we all need to have once in a while.”
“Why do I read chick lit? Because chick lit is fun :) A light reading which makes you smile and sometimes upset”
“Rather like having an enormous box of chocolates that I can dip into at will - or even scoff the lot with no guilt feelings.”
“We all need a bit of light hearted fun in our lives! There is nothing wrong with a bit of daydreaming. This is why I like chicklit :o) xx”
“I especially enjoy reading about strong women who make their way in men's professions and have fun while their at it.”
“Other times I'm laughing my face off enjoying the great adventures and interesting situations that some of the characters get themselves into.”
“What I love about it is the attitude, that it's all about a woman's journey, but more in a fun, personal way than say women's fiction”
“It is fun, light hearted escapism”
Notice the common theme in all of them? Yes, the F word (no, not THAT F word!) - Fun!
So what exactly is chicklit?
Well, the chicklit genre is so diverse, encompassing all the issues that modern women face. And it’s so much more than killer-shoes and pink covers! It can be sad, happy, kick-ass, fun, comic, scary, inspiring, heart-warming, intriguing, romantic, raunchy, sassy, full of attitude, quirky, tear-jerking. It covers real problems that women go through on a daily basis so it can never die!
But I think the main theme of chicklit is that it often contains humor, sarcasm, wit, and a fantabulous dose of fun. They are also often told in a more personal and confiding tone. Imagine having a natter with your best mate while indulging in a big dose of chocolate. Think of it as a calorie free indulgence! And these are the things that set it apart from purely romance or women’s fiction.
Nowadays there are sub genres such as mommy lit, mystery lit, even lad lit! So whatever type of story you’re looking for there will be loads of chicklit books to suit you.
Authors in the chicklit genre include people like Sophie Kinsella, Marian Keyes, Beth Orsoff, LC Evans. Oh, yeah, and little old moi!
So, girls and guys, if you do wanna have fun…reach for the chicklit!
Bio:
Sibel Hodge has dual British/Turkish Cypriot nationality, dividing her time between Hertfordshire and North Cyprus. She is a qualified personal trainer, sports and massage therapist, and writes freelance feature articles on health, fitness, and various lifetyle subjects. Prior to this, she also worked for Hertfordshire Constabulary for ten years.
Her first novel, Fourteen Days Later, was short listed for the Harry Bowling Prize 2008 and received a highly commended by the Yeovil Literary Prize 2009. It is a romantic comedy with a unique infusion of British and Turkish Cypriot culture. Written in a similar style to Sophie Kinsella and Marian Keyes, Fourteen Days Later is My Big Fat Greek Wedding meets Bridget Jones. My Perfect Wedding is the sequel to Fourteen Days Later, although it can be read as a standalone novel.
The Fashion Police was a runner up in the Chapter One Promotions Novel Competition 2010 and nominated Best Novel with Romantic Elements 2010 by The Romance Reviews. It is a screwball comedy-mystery, combining murder and mayhem with romance and chick-lit, and the first in a series featuring feisty, larger-than-life insurance investigator, Amber Fox. Written in a similar style to Janet Evanovich and Myron Bolitar, The Fashion Police is Stephanie Plum meets Harlan Coben. Be Careful What You Wish For is the second Amber Fox Mystery.
Blurb for Be Careful What You Wish For:
For fans of Janet Evanovich, Kate Johnson, and Gemma Halliday...
Armed with cool sarcasm and uncontrollable hair, feisty insurance investigator Amber Fox is back in a new mystery combining murder and mayhem with romance and chicklit…
Three deaths.
A safety deposit box robbery.
The boxing heavyweight champion of the world.
Somehow, they’re all related, and Amber has to solve a four year old crime to find out why.
As she stumbles across a trail of dead bodies and a web of lies spanning both sides of the social divide, it’s starting to get personal. Someone thinks Amber’s poking her nose in where it’s not wanted, sparking off a game of fox and mouse – only this time, Amber’s the mouse.
Amber’s forced to take refuge in the home of her ex-fiancĂ©, Brad Beckett, and now it’s not just the case that’s hotting up. So is the bedroom…
All Levi Carter wanted to be was the boxing heavyweight champion of the world, but at what cost?
All Carl Thomas wanted was to be rich, but would his greed be his downfall?
All Brad Beckett wants is to get Amber back, but there’s a reason for the ex word.
Be careful what you wish for…you might just get it.
Reviews:
"I was hooked in this book from beginning to end. This is a very well written book that has humour and romance." Geeky Girl Books
"If you like Janet Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum I think you will really like Amber Fox - I know I do." Martha's Bookshelf
"Amber Fox was hilarious with her tough as nails outer persona and her hysterical one-liners that were frequently laugh out loud funny.
I definately recommend picking this book up!!" The Caffeinated Diva reads...
"Be Careful What You Wish For is a sharp, fast-paced story with intrigue, evil, romance, and humor. Amber Fox is the kind of strong lead female character with a great sarcastic wit that I love to read." To Read, Perchance to Dream
Links:
Ebook:
Amazon.com
Amazon.co.uk
Smashwords
B&N Nook
Paperback: Amazon.com
Author website
Author blog
For reviews and purchases of my latest novels
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I was standing up when I said that so should I duck now and wait for the squidgy tomatoes to be thrown at me? I know some of you lovely readers might appreciate a hefty dose of chicklit, but there are still a lot of chicklit-haters out there! Why? Haven’t got a clue, to be honest, because if you think about it, chicklit has been around for years. Just look at Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen! It was possibly one the first romantic comedies - yep, that’s right, Jane Austen wrote chicklit!
And since chicklit and fun go hand in hand, I thought I’d show you my take on this amazing genre!
May was the inaugural International Chicklit Month, and I had the pleasure of hosting a fabtastic giveaway of chicklit books on my blog. All people had to do to enter was leave a comment saying exactly what they love about chicklit. And this is where the fun part comes in!
Here are a few quotes from the comments:
“I can be sitting here reading a book, laughing out loud, snickering, and more, and I could try to explain to my hubby what is so funny, and he just doesn't get it!!!”
“Why do I like chick lit? Because it offers realistic characters, intriguing settings, and often, a good dose of humor”
“Reading a chicklit novel is like having a gossip session with a girl friend, and that is a guilty pleasure we all need to have once in a while.”
“Why do I read chick lit? Because chick lit is fun :) A light reading which makes you smile and sometimes upset”
“Rather like having an enormous box of chocolates that I can dip into at will - or even scoff the lot with no guilt feelings.”
“We all need a bit of light hearted fun in our lives! There is nothing wrong with a bit of daydreaming. This is why I like chicklit :o) xx”
“I especially enjoy reading about strong women who make their way in men's professions and have fun while their at it.”
“Other times I'm laughing my face off enjoying the great adventures and interesting situations that some of the characters get themselves into.”
“What I love about it is the attitude, that it's all about a woman's journey, but more in a fun, personal way than say women's fiction”
“It is fun, light hearted escapism”
Notice the common theme in all of them? Yes, the F word (no, not THAT F word!) - Fun!
So what exactly is chicklit?
Well, the chicklit genre is so diverse, encompassing all the issues that modern women face. And it’s so much more than killer-shoes and pink covers! It can be sad, happy, kick-ass, fun, comic, scary, inspiring, heart-warming, intriguing, romantic, raunchy, sassy, full of attitude, quirky, tear-jerking. It covers real problems that women go through on a daily basis so it can never die!
But I think the main theme of chicklit is that it often contains humor, sarcasm, wit, and a fantabulous dose of fun. They are also often told in a more personal and confiding tone. Imagine having a natter with your best mate while indulging in a big dose of chocolate. Think of it as a calorie free indulgence! And these are the things that set it apart from purely romance or women’s fiction.
Nowadays there are sub genres such as mommy lit, mystery lit, even lad lit! So whatever type of story you’re looking for there will be loads of chicklit books to suit you.
Authors in the chicklit genre include people like Sophie Kinsella, Marian Keyes, Beth Orsoff, LC Evans. Oh, yeah, and little old moi!
So, girls and guys, if you do wanna have fun…reach for the chicklit!
~*~
Bio:
Sibel Hodge has dual British/Turkish Cypriot nationality, dividing her time between Hertfordshire and North Cyprus. She is a qualified personal trainer, sports and massage therapist, and writes freelance feature articles on health, fitness, and various lifetyle subjects. Prior to this, she also worked for Hertfordshire Constabulary for ten years.
Her first novel, Fourteen Days Later, was short listed for the Harry Bowling Prize 2008 and received a highly commended by the Yeovil Literary Prize 2009. It is a romantic comedy with a unique infusion of British and Turkish Cypriot culture. Written in a similar style to Sophie Kinsella and Marian Keyes, Fourteen Days Later is My Big Fat Greek Wedding meets Bridget Jones. My Perfect Wedding is the sequel to Fourteen Days Later, although it can be read as a standalone novel.
The Fashion Police was a runner up in the Chapter One Promotions Novel Competition 2010 and nominated Best Novel with Romantic Elements 2010 by The Romance Reviews. It is a screwball comedy-mystery, combining murder and mayhem with romance and chick-lit, and the first in a series featuring feisty, larger-than-life insurance investigator, Amber Fox. Written in a similar style to Janet Evanovich and Myron Bolitar, The Fashion Police is Stephanie Plum meets Harlan Coben. Be Careful What You Wish For is the second Amber Fox Mystery.
~*~
Blurb for Be Careful What You Wish For:
For fans of Janet Evanovich, Kate Johnson, and Gemma Halliday...
Armed with cool sarcasm and uncontrollable hair, feisty insurance investigator Amber Fox is back in a new mystery combining murder and mayhem with romance and chicklit…
Three deaths.
A safety deposit box robbery.
The boxing heavyweight champion of the world.
Somehow, they’re all related, and Amber has to solve a four year old crime to find out why.
As she stumbles across a trail of dead bodies and a web of lies spanning both sides of the social divide, it’s starting to get personal. Someone thinks Amber’s poking her nose in where it’s not wanted, sparking off a game of fox and mouse – only this time, Amber’s the mouse.
Amber’s forced to take refuge in the home of her ex-fiancĂ©, Brad Beckett, and now it’s not just the case that’s hotting up. So is the bedroom…
All Levi Carter wanted to be was the boxing heavyweight champion of the world, but at what cost?
All Carl Thomas wanted was to be rich, but would his greed be his downfall?
All Brad Beckett wants is to get Amber back, but there’s a reason for the ex word.
Be careful what you wish for…you might just get it.
~*~
Reviews:
"I was hooked in this book from beginning to end. This is a very well written book that has humour and romance." Geeky Girl Books
"If you like Janet Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum I think you will really like Amber Fox - I know I do." Martha's Bookshelf
"Amber Fox was hilarious with her tough as nails outer persona and her hysterical one-liners that were frequently laugh out loud funny.
I definately recommend picking this book up!!" The Caffeinated Diva reads...
"Be Careful What You Wish For is a sharp, fast-paced story with intrigue, evil, romance, and humor. Amber Fox is the kind of strong lead female character with a great sarcastic wit that I love to read." To Read, Perchance to Dream
~*~
Ebook:
Amazon.com
Amazon.co.uk
Smashwords
B&N Nook
Paperback: Amazon.com
Author website
Author blog
For reviews and purchases of my latest novels
Follow me on Twitter
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