Dating can be defined as a social
engagement between two people, which often has a romantic character. When you
go out on a date, you would most likely know something about the person, but if
you meet someone online, you really know nothing about this individual, except
for what you read in their personal profile. If you decide to go out with that unfamiliar
person, there are certain questions you should avoid asking until you have dated
that individual for a while, have gotten to know that man or woman and believe
your rapport with this person will develop into something special.
If you are seeking a lifetime partner,
think before you start to bombard the person with personal inquiries. Unless
you want to scare your date away, never ask the following questions or engage
in certain conversations, which may result in an uncomfortable outcome:
How
much money do you make?
Tell
me something about your family.
How
many children would you like to have?
Are
your parents still married?
Don’t
ask anything about past relationships.
Avoid
talking about politics, religion.
Try to listen and direct the dialogue in
a comfortable manner, so that the person talks about him or herself. People
enjoy those who listen. By paying attention, you may not have to ask a horde of
inquiries. You could ask what type of movies the person enjoys, the music they
love to listen to or what hobbies he or she enjoy doing in their spare time.
1 comment:
You're so on the money. Asking personal questions about number of children on a first date, suggests 'marry me now'. That's scary for a date who isn't thinking along that line.
Excellent post!
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