Many times, women talk about the men they keep meeting on
various online dating sites. When these men take them out to dinner on the
first date and foot the bill, they automatically assume that the women owe them
a booty call. Most women cannot understand why they keep attracting these frame
of mind men. And this is where examining the men’s personal profiles is extremely
important.
When a man is just seeking a sexual encounter, a friend with
benefits or just a one night stand, somewhere in his personal profile, he will
let it be known. But if you are not interested in a sexual relationship early
on, then you have to be forthright and let the man know what you will or will not
do on a first date.
Now
when you decide to compose an online profile, there are several key words which
you can use as a guide to help you weed out those just looking-for-sex
individuals. Mention what type of relationship you are
interested in, and be honest. If you are seeking a friendship, a long or
short-term relationship, a marriage-minded person, a life-time partner, or an
activity partner without the sex, then say so. Whether you're advertising on the World
Wide Web or in a printed publication, you want to make a first-rate impression
and catch the attention of the kind of person you are interested in attracting,
or the one who will ascribe to the same attributes and interests that you are
seeking. Some of these words can include: give, describe, mention, highlight,
inform, and be and when. Of course, you may come up with other terms to help
create an appealing summary of yourself, a summary that won’t say, “I am only
interested in sexual relationship.”
Finding the right person on online dating sites can be
daunting but using common sense when searching through profiles and reading
between the lines will save you a lot of disappointments on that first date. Of
course, you can always go Dutch treat. This way there will be no
misunderstandings or soaring expectations from the man’s end.
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